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Going to ask a girl out for the first time - general advice please 2017-01-14 09:32:02 Post No. 17956742
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Going to ask a girl out for the first time - general advice please Anonymous 2017-01-14 09:32:02 Post No. 17956742 [Report]

I've been talking with this girl from my uni for two weeks now and tomorrow I'll be kinda asking her out. She's quiet, casual and studious so I'm thinking about going to a nice comfy coffee shop nearby and spend some time together chatting and studying for our upcoming exams. Thing is I've never done this before and I want to make sure it won't be a silent, boring studying lesson. Neither of us are very talkative, and I doubt she has ever been asked out on a date too so we're both really inexperienced. I mean I have no problems chatting with her for a bit and cracking some jokes but I don't know if I can keep the conversation going for like two hours. Any tips for someone who's never done this before?

Anonymous 2017-01-14 09:37:29 Post No.17956752
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Anonymous 2017-01-14 09:37:29 Post No.17956752 [Report]

Just ask her stuff and let her talk, actually listen her.

Anonymous 2017-01-14 09:49:14 Post No.17956773
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Anonymous 2017-01-14 09:49:14 Post No.17956773 [Report]

>>17956752
What kind of things do I ask her for example?

Anonymous 2017-01-14 11:45:52 Post No.17957034
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>>17956773
>books
>movies
>travel
>countries they want to visit
>family
>pets

Avoid politics and religion. Listen to her answers. Actively listen. ("wow, when you .... I imagine it made you feel ....") YOu will be up to your nuts in guts in no time! God speed OP!

Anonymous 2017-01-15 12:02:22 Post No.17957092
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Anonymous 2017-01-15 12:02:22 Post No.17957092 [Report]

>>17957034
Alright, those look like nice topics. Thanks for the help anon. I guess I'm worrying too much but I just want to make sure things go well

Anonymous 2017-01-15 12:56:26 Post No.17957239
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Anonymous 2017-01-15 12:56:26 Post No.17957239 [Report]

Bump before going to sleep. Last one I promise

Anonymous 2017-01-15 02:52:20 Post No.17957527
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Anonymous 2017-01-15 02:52:20 Post No.17957527 [Report]

As the other anons said, ask lots of questions, listen to the answer and ask a followup. Pay attention to hygiene and appearance. Also don't leave your wallet at home

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