sex question is it possible to train your girlfriend to give

>>17956650
Sure, why not? Communication and practice are basically how any couple learn to maximally please each other.

That's going to cause insecurity and resentment

>>17956650
It's definitely good to TELL her what you want, but don't show her the porn vids unless she's into that. Some girls will get insecure if you tell them to be like a porn star, and it will just make the whole situation worse

It's a skill that can be trained like any other, but she'll only learn if she LIKES sucking you off, and WANTS to make you feel as good as she possibly can. Attitude is everything

>implying looking like porn matters more than feeling good

>>17956679
sometimes i want it rough and quick

>>17956650

you could, but one thing to cosnider is that just becasuse something LOOKS good in video does not mean it FEELS good irl.

porn is for show. most of it is unrealistic and doesn't feel good.

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>>17956650

Porn isn't real life.

>>17956659
>>17956660
>>17956679
>>17956765
>>17956774
femanons detected

By all means tell her what you want, but you're better off describing it and practising with her than showing her porn. Reasons are that;
>she doesn't have a dick so she'll not be able to gather what actually goes on in a quick scene the way you can, chances are she doesn't realize why the woman does it like this and what the goal is
>especially if she's the type of girl who doesn't like porn at all, taking a trip from the passion and intimacy in your bedroom to point to a pornstar gagging, spitting and what not on a dick and basically tell her you want her to be like that is not likely to give her more sexy associations around oral sex

You can introduce the idea and offer to watch some things together for a more concrete idea, but don't just spring it on her out of nowhere.

>>17956781

I'm >>17956679 and I'm a guy, suck it up faggot

I mean, I'm a girl and I've never thought it was weird to watch porn with my partner but I realize not all girls are the same about it, but I feel like you could discreetly do it by opening her up to watching it with you. Point out certain things you think would be cool if she did to you or encourage her to point out things you could do for her so she feels more relaxed about it I guess.

give her a little piece of chocolate every time she does something you like and in time you should be able to train her

My gf only learned it from another girl in a threesome. She saw how much I enjoyed it and asked me what she did. Before that I had never had good blowjob from her.

So get another girl to suck your dick and teach your hoe to do it properly