So I don't have friends anymore, and I never leave the house because I'm sick all the time, going to the hospital only reason I go out.
However I just got a text message this morning from a friend from a long time ago....I was best friends with him as a kid and later for a while. My question is sold I talk to him again?
Here's a list of all the fucked up shit he did to me/got me into that made me go incommunicado:
>diddled me as a small child
> offered to teach me how to kiss by kissing him
> pathological liar so I couldn't even tell when he was serious or not
> ran away from home to stay at my house a lot
> stole hallucinogenic mushrooms from his psychologist parents who lived innawoods
> got sent to pseudo military school in middle of nowhere because nobody could handle him
> borrowed my xbox and speaker system and never gave it back
> bought a literal pound of marijuana and brought it to my house, getting people to talk to my younger sister's while high (didn't cause anything else with them though, so that's not too bad at least)
He came back changed though to be fair...I think. He got a girlfriend for a bit, started working with his uncle, studying, normal stuff.
Can people really change? Would you give someone like that another chance to be your friend? I'd already given him a lot of chances before and got hurt, but I don't really have any options right now
>>17956369
He sounds cool give him a chance. If he took all those mushrooms he's probably very concerned about being sincere so I doubt you'll be getting a load of horseshit.
>>17956369
>i dont have friends anymore
>sick all the time
>hospital only reason i go out
To me it seems your life could brighten up by getting somebody to talk with.
>>17956378
What
>>17956383
My dad just retired and he's autistic like me so that's something. I haven't had friends for years and done fine enough. Always been solitary type desu.
Also I recorded another edition of my podcast with an online friend for esports yesterday, so it's not like I'm completely without contact.
IRL friend would be nice but I don't want to get into any drama again I wouldn't be able to handle it.Idk. That's why I'm asking for advice, what would you anons do?
>>17956385
Why you takin that stuff personally man he didn't do it to you, he did it for him. You had nothin to do with his actions
He probably took a bunch of drugs gained some perspective realized he's been fucking people over and is now trying to make amends. He's a free spirit but you should give him a chance to be close with you again, if you can trust that he's not trying to hurt you
>>17956391
>autistic like me
When we will rename 4chan to 4autism?
Do you have paper from real doctor confirming your status?
Or are you just another lazy introvert?
>what would you anons do?
I wouldn't give a fuck about him, since I am happy currently. But you making threads on /adv/ claims otherwise. I am here for fishing precious adv's (you)s and reading funny stories.
So yes, get in touch and be happy. At least he can tell you fun stories about drug experiences.
>>17956414
>>17956422
Drugs are bad m'kay
>>17956476
And these kind of (you)s are worthless for me :-(
>>17956369
>diddled me as a small child
This alone would make me sever contact forever. No I don't think people like that can change.
If you said this was a girl everyone would tell you to never speak to her again.
>>17956369
>pathological liar
>not returning your stuff
>putting you at legal risk
You should just ignore him. People usually don't change, especially pathological liars.
http://www.medicaldaily.com/how-lying-affects-human-brain-telling-lies-desensitizes-amygdala-dishonesty-402310
If you want this person in your life again then be straight with him, tell him that you're not sure if you can trust him because of all the things he did in the past.