My girlfriend goes clubbing. Should i be concerned?

>>17954743
Not even memeing. But yeah, she's cheating on you.

Take it from experience. If you were really all that she would rather spend the nights with you. Not rubbing up on some other guys cock.

And you don't go too why?

Well, her actions could be out of concern for your feelings. Perhaps she’s excluded you from these gatherings because she’s scouting for a new mate and doesn’t want to do it in front of you.

Goes without saying.

>>17954743
Without you?

Run

>>17954770
You should suggest going. And if she says no question that. Depending on her reason though it would sound fishy.

>>17954743

>Should i be concerned?

Firstly, please ignore the /r9k/ garbage in this thread. They know absolutely nothing about your or your girlfriend.

Secondly, you need to discuss this with your girlfriend. Clubbing is fun. Girls like dancing and singing and fruity drinks and laser lights and shit. Do some girls go to clubs to pretend to be single and flirt and get too drunk? Absolutely, but all this "club girl = cheating slut" bullshit is a meme.

Like I said, talk with her. If she's insistent that you can't come with her or is gone all night long every weekend or is secretive about it then obviously there's something fishy. Just don't automatically assume she's cheating just because she goes to clubs. Clubs are fun, dude. I play in clubs every weekend and its a lot of fun dancing and playing out and having fun in large groups. Some people go there to get laid but thats definitely not all its for.

My girlfriend had a brief period of clubbing with her coworkers but got burnt out of it pretty quick. We've been together for nearly 5 years. You have to take all of these things in context. If you don't trust your girlfriend then there's some things bigger than clubbing that need to be addressed.

Go with her, check it out. Ask her to keep you in the loop. Just make sure to do your due diligence and keep your paranoia in check until she's actually done something to make you doubt her.

Most likely cheating somewhat. She's 99.99% for sure flirting with guys who approach her that interest her.

I'd dump her. If she was meant for you, she'd be spending time with you instead of at the club with randos. Huge red flag.

>>17954760
Its LDR

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>>17954812
OP, I think you're girlfriend has found your thread

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>>17954816
>I'd dump her


This, do it RIGHT NOW so that way you have the satisfaction.

If she dumps you, youre going to feel like ass.

>>17954816
>>17954751

I really don't understand this "if your gf enjoys anything in life that doesnt involve you she's cheating" meme.

Are you guys exclusively into just hopelessly clingy girls whose universes revolve around you or do you actually find women who aren't completely dependent on you for all of their entertainment and socialization needs undesirable?

Like she spends all of her time with you, sleeps with you, goes on dates with you, lives with you, but the second she steps out of the house and does anything on her own or with her friends that doesn't involve you she's 99.99% likely to be flirting with other guys?

I don't understand your logic there. Have you ever had a girlfriend?

>>17954839

Yeah I've had constant gf's since Freshman year of High School.

Ask any female friend if girls with boyfriends will respond to flirting if their boyfriend isn't around at the club. Most will do it just for fun. MOST won't hook up or make out or anything, but some will. Most girls who are in relationships will just get a bit tipsy and flirt with guys who approach them, being ready to say no as soon as things get out of hand.

My gf used to go clubbing before we started dating. When we got serious we hung out every single night. She didn't have to go out to dance. She would just take her pants off, drink wine, and dance in front of me to some albums. Girls who are happy in their relationships have no reason to go clubbing.

>>17954839
She's going out and doing things where most people meet up to have to sex.

You're a cuck or a woman

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>>17954835

>inb4 cuck

>inb4 roastie

Here's the thing, fellas. I know some of you guys have been hurt. I know some of you have insecurity and trust issues but I don't have those issues. I'm willing to be vulnerable.

I'm interested in dating a human being; someone with interests and autonomy and independence. I cannot STAND a girl who depends on me to escort her through life. I need to know that when I want time on my own to do my own thing or go with my friends or go on a trip that she knows how to entertain herself and doesn't just wait at the front door like a fucking dog for me to come home and entertain her. Its stifling, dude. I absolutely love it when my girlfriend tells me, "I'm going to go to a dinner party then out for some drinks I'll be back later." She has her own life. I can play video games or eat thai food in my underwear and be my own fucking person for a night and not have to worry about my dull girlfriend depending on me for everything.

I also don't enter into relationships with people I don't trust. That's not saying that I ignore untrustworthy behavior but honestly, I've never had that issue with girls. As soon as I catch them in a lie or they prove that they can't be trusted I leave them. She wants to go out? Fine, I don't care.

As soon as she starts hiding things from me or telling me I can't come or acting weird with her phone I'll investigate but I ALWAYS start out from a place of trust because dating someone you don't trust enough to give the benefit of the doubt is fucking dumb. Its a recipe for failure in every relationship you'll ever be in.

I do it because I want her to give me the benefit of the doubt to; when I'm out on tour or playing a club she trusts me that I'm not getting blown in the DJ booth or taking girls back to my hotel. Its trust, man. It goes both ways.

If trusting my girlfriend and being in a happy relationship of nearly 5 years makes me a cuck then I'll gladly accept the title. Don't really give a fuck.

>>17954859
I'm glad you're happy.

But it doesn't change the fact you're a literal cuck. Now OP wants to know if his gf is cheating on him. The answer is almost certainly. It's just a matter of whether or not he is willing to be a cuck

>>17954845

>She's going out and doing things where most people meet up to have to sex.

Have you ever actually been in a club? I feel like you probably haven't. There are all sorts of people in clubs, dude. There's the club kids who come to dance and grind up on the subs. There's the group of girls who come to drink and dance and there's ALWAYS a couple of uncomfortable girls they drag along just because they feel safer in groups. There is the single guys that come to skeez on girls and be weirdos and most of them go home with their dicks in their hand, then there's the handful of weirdo 4chan users no doubt who sit in the corner and just watch girls dance.

Nightclubs aren't fucking swingers groups man. Yes, sex does happen there but it happens in bars too, man. Alcohol loosens people up, but I'm saying you probably haven't been in a club because if you had you would know that sex or not, they're fucking FUN. Loud music, bright lights, people dancing and having a good time. If you honestly think people don't have fun in clubs without sex, again, I would imply that you haven't been to one.

>Girls who are happy in their relationships have no reason to go clubbing.

I just haven't found that to be true. I don't think being happy in a relationship means only finding joy or fun with your boyfriend/girlfriend. I don't think being happy in a relationship means to stop meeting new people and exploring life. Clubs are fun. I'm happy in a relationship and I like loud clubs. I go to tons of shows in clubs and I usually have a good time even though I never take a girl home.

>>17954873
>Have you ever actually been in a club?

I have. You sound oblivious or a just cuck.

You know I take it back, maybe OP's gf isn't intentionally trying to cheat but it's only a matter of time before some Chad grinds up on her and "it just happens"

>>17954871

>But it doesn't change the fact you're a literal cuck.

A literal cuck is a man who enjoys watching his wife have sex with other men. I am not married, nor does my girlfriend have sex with other men. Like I said, I trust my girlfriend, she trusts me. She has her own life and I have mine.

I'm not threatened by my girlfriend having fun without me. If that makes me a cuck, like I said, I don't care. In my opinion, however, trusting your girlfriend doesnt make you a cuck. I don't know where you got that silly idea.

>Now OP wants to know if his gf is cheating on him. The answer is almost certainly.

You know nothing about her or OP or their relationship. OP's post was two sentences. All you know is she likes clubbing. You have absolutely zero reliable information to make that assumption, which leads me to believe that a lot of your babble here is based on some kind of personal hurt that you're projecting onto op OR some regurgitated /r9k/ bullshit that says all women who do a certain thing are sluts or untrustworthy. That's just some retarded robot propaganda.

>>17954882
>You have absolutely zero reliable information to make that assumption, which leads me to believe that a lot of your babble here is based on some kind of personal hurt that you're projecting onto op OR some regurgitated /r9k/ bullshit that says all women who do a certain thing are sluts or untrustworthy.

Shoo shoo roastie

>>17954881

>I have. You sound oblivious or a just cuck.

I'm in clubs every weekend. Different clubs, all over the country. Again, I don't watch my wife have sex with other men, nor am I married, so I don't know how or why you keep blabbering cuck like a broken record. I trust my girlfriend, she trusts me. If that somehow makes me a cuck in your mind then sure, I'll take it.

>maybe OP's gf isn't intentionally trying to cheat but it's only a matter of time before some Chad grinds up on her and "it just happens"

Either you're incapable of trusting a woman because you're a hopeless /r9k/ manchild, or you're incapable of trusting a woman because you're a shitty 2/10 that couldn't attract a quality, trustworthy girl if you dangled a flawless diamond from the tip of your dick.

Either option does not bode well.

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>>17954884

/r9k/ memes all day erry day

I clicked this thread expecting to find deluded redpill autists who see the world in black and white calling everyone cucks, and I got exactly what I expected.

There should be an add-on to block all comments and posts containing the word 'cuck' because anyone who still unironically uses that word doesn't have an opinion that needs to be heard.

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>>17954889
>i trust women

Do us a favor and don't come here whining when you find texts on her phone

>>17954895
t. cuck

>>17954873
>Loud music, bright lights, people dancing
man that sounds awful.
maybe if it was like a course with bright lights.
you know, like it was some kinda alien space ship looking thing with spinny bullshit that's trying to knock you off and you gotta navigate the course and you try to knock other people off in order to get in first.
now THAT sounds like a good time.

>>17954743
Girl here. Yep. Girls who do that kind of stuff are bad news.

Any more than once in a while is weird for a girl in a relationship. Too many girls aren't willing to make the sacrifices you have to make in a relationship (i.e. not going out all the fucking time) and want the best of both worlds.

>>17954859

Lmao Tyrone is balls deep in her as we speak

>>17954859
That wall of text totally didn't sound like you were trying to convince yourself nothing is wrong.

Something tells me you're better off just finding a partner who is like you so you can relate easier and trust each other easier. If she's entering a world you don't understand and don't care for, you can't trust her because you don't think you know her enough. Talk to her about it. Tell her you think there's a gap between you and her. If you can't overcome this gap, go find someone else.

>>17954743

Depends on her character, how did you meet? how long were you together? Has she ever shown or told you about her promiscuous side?

Girls like to go out together, to dance, to listen to music, to feel validated and be offered free drinks. It means nothing if the girl is trustworthy with a good character. If she's going out with other guys that would be of concern, if she gets blackout drunk that would be of concern and if she doesn't keep in touch at all before and after her night is finished and she's either back with you or in a safe place I would also be wary of that. Anything else is just your insecurities getting the better of you.

>>17954812
>>17954839
Got it OP? whatever is the issue it's your fault.
God forbid you question the behavior of a woman.