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How can I find out if one of my friends who I have onetis with but has a boyfriend is hanging out with my friends tonight? My friends wanna hangout but I dont want to go if the girl is there because it'll hurt too much and I won't have a good time at all. I can't just ask if X is coming tonight, I have no idea on how to find out if she is coming or not. I am just leaning towards the safe route and staying home alone tonight.
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>>17950708
quick bump. need an answer asap
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>>17950708
"Who all is gunna be there?"
They respond. Then ask "where at?"
Then if you then want to back out, come up with some excuse why that place doesn't work like: "no ty, I'm trying to save money"
That way you cover up why you aren't going.
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>>17950808
You could just be honest too, if they're your friends they'll understand. I was in this same boat and ended up having to bail, I told them why and it was fine. If they're not asses they'll respect you
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>>17950828
I am more embarrased with myself that I am not emotionally strong enough to handle this situation and have to sit home alone most times now. But the solution presented itself and one of my friends said in chat she was coming (randomly not because I asked) so its gonna be sitting home tonight again lol
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>>17950808
It was at my buddies house so I was very limited on excuses.
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>>17950850
Maybe another friend in your group has oneitis for the same girl?
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>>17950885
>Maybe another friend in your group has oneitis for the same girl?
What makes you think that? he just asked her and let others know she isnt in our facebook group
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>>17951179
Oops I misread your earlier comment. I thought you said someone else asked about her in chat.
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