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So a girl I have oneitis with and is also my friend just got a boyfriend. I felt like she had one for about a week or two since she was ending conversatile quick when we texted, and she never wanted to hangout recently when before she was always free. Anyway I did the first rule of moving on and cut contact or since we're friendstill at least limit it down to very basic things like I never text first and if she does text me then I end it asap. What is the next step to moving on here? She meant alot to me and as my oneitis she meant even more. Also started on possibly part 2 and started to get into shape. I never want to lose again if I get lucky enough to get to meet a girl like her again in my life. I just feel empty right now but randomly motivated to improve.
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It's hard also because I keep getting overwhelming urges to talk with her but I know I can't anymore and it's killing me inside.
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Just give it time man, I know it's horseshit but the reality of how many girls there are out there will dawn upon you soon. I fucking guarantee it
My advice? Stay up all night, listen to all your favorite sad, mopey music and just indulge that feeling. You'll wake up the next morning feeling pathetic and wanting to move on from that horseshit, and you will
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>>17949237
That's not cutting contact, OP.
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>>17949397
I can't 100% cut it because she's in my friend group and others will notice if she says something and I don't really want to come out and say hey I am not emotionally strong enough to deal with this situation and I need to be alone.
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>>17949390
It's weird because I'm not sad I'm just empty feeling, it's really weird honestly idk what it is. Lonely? Feeling like a loser? Your guess is as good as mine.
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