Is sex the most enjoyable activity average human could experience?

>>17946670
Skydiving, riding a motorcycle or car at top speed, wrong a really good plate of food. There are comparable things. Sex isn't the end all be all.

I guess it depends on a person. For me, sex is on the bottom of the list of enjoyable things. Might be that my bf just sucks at it, now that I think about it.

Adrenaline rushes are good substitutes

>>17946670
It really depends on who you are as a person. For me sex with the love of my life is the number #1 most enjoyable thing in life for me, but the woman above doesn't care for it. My boyfriend sucks at sex too so i always have to take the lead but the act of sex with him is great becsuse i have a very high sex drive and im very attatched and attracted to him. It depends on who you are and what your values are. If I didn't have my boyfriend I think that preparing different varieties of Mac and cheese would be my favorite thing, or custom making blends of teas.
Why do you ask this question?

>>17946670
I enjoy doing stand up comedy as much or more than sex. Also playing guitar and singing when I hit the notes perfectly. Also dancing. Also when I lift weights to good music. Also when I drive fast to good music. Also that feeling after you're done with sex when you just lay there with a woman in your bed and feel content. Also when you clutch in an fps game.

>>17946690
Leave him then. You should be cumming a couple times minimum from sex.

Maybe some drugs might top it, but not the kind one would like to use.

I did high adrenaline stuff, but it's not a replacement at all. A great orgasm is the best mental feeling you can have without doing drugs imo

>>17946718
I have to make myself cum. Sad. If I bring it up he'd be sad and not want to have sex again.

>>17946722
Dopamine, yeah, especially when you nut inside after a long time. But in terms of actual satisfaction, accomplishing goals feels better. You know what I'm saying? If just hitting the pleasure button were that good then no junkie would ever have gotten sober.

>>17946731
You clearly aren't attracted to him enough then. And is he grinding his pelvic bone into yours when he fucks you or does he just plow into you like a dumbass who watches too much porn? If he's bad then instruct him a bit. Or does he just not last long enough/ isn't big enough?

There are A LOT of girls who cannot achieve orgasm through penetration. Some require oral, digital, or even self-driving. Not uncommon at all. Use positions that allow you to reach your clit while he's pounding away or toys that stimulate you during intercourse. Some guys feel inadequate, but that is a sign of sexual immaturity and insecurity. You can try to comfort him a little, but he should get over it. My first serious gf had a similar issue. Oral worked fine, but penetration wasn't enough.

My attitude: "It's not my fault your cunt's broken. I'm doing everything right."

>>17946766
From the girls I've slept with it sounds like guys commonly are sexual retards or don't last very long.

Sex is good, but remember it's nothing but a temporary release of chemicals. There are much better things in life, especially building a life that you are happy with and doing things that you enjoy and make you appreciate the world around you. Like taking a hike in the afternoon and watching the sun set at a great view. Or getting a new job and celebrating with a steak and a cigar. Even taking a day off and sitting around the house in my underwear. For me, life is made for those moments, and sex doesn't really compare. However, there comes a point when our animal instincts require some sort of interpersonal connection, and sex is important in fostering those kinds of relationships. It's more important to some people than others, but it's not the end all of a happy life is what I'm trying to say.

>>17946718
>>17946690
>guy can't cum/doesn't enjoy sex
lol what a faggot, he's not a real man
>girl can't cum/doesn't enjoy sex
lol her partner is such a faggot, he's not a real man

assisted masturbation, sharing a mad acid trip, consensual violence

>>17946808
I can't cum when I'm with a girl the first time. Girls usually feel bad about it, actually. They blame themselves, especially because they get off, but it's purely a mental thing for me.

>>17946813
Clockwork Orange is a shit movie

I dont think sex is the most enjoyable human activity itself, its what sex means, being accepted as a desirable person by another human being which you find desirable.

Sex for most people is a measure of self worth and self confidence, and that's what people who want sex a lot are after, not the act itself.

So really, the most enjoyable activity the average human can experience is feeling itself to be superior to his peers.

>>17946873
it sure is, but how does that have anything to do with my statement? there's no assisted masturbation, tripping on lsd or consensual violence in Kubrick's film. a far more intelligent comment would've been 'Fight Club is a shit film', or 'Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas is a shit film', since both of them at least contain one of the elements of my enumeration

>>17946670
its definitely one of the most enjoyable things you can do for free. well, most of us anyway

>>17946736

Yeah, "human activity" is very broad and allows for lots of things to be included in the discussion. But most you can't directly compare, so I can see this thread derailing soon.

By the standard you used, I guess successfuly raising a children would be one of the tops for the average "normie" human, at least from what I see some parents talking. Not sure how honest they are though lol

I for sure know the girl on the left in the picture

Honestly my dude and I have skipped sex to play Overwatch a couple times so it depends on mood sometimes.

>>17947051
Do know her or do you "know" her?

>>17946940

"elements of my enumeration"

>"im really going to impress these guys with this one"

>>17947083
i guess it impressed you afterall. so much that you decided to focus on it instead of adressing the main point of my post, right? it definitely didn't happen because you're undeniably mentally inferior, unable to dismiss my words in another way than by concluding i'm a pretentious cunt who's dying for some stranger's validation. cool. i mean you're spot on with that, it's just that i would've enjoyed to have a conversation, y'know

only with a person real close to you
(no I dont mean incest)

>>17946718
fuck off roastie
life with your parnter should never revolve around sex.

>>17946670
Physiologically speaking, a runner's high was really close. The closest to an ongoing orgasm (non-sexually speaking) would be after an extremely intense workout followed by the endorphins rushing through my body. Only happens to me once

>>17946670
If that were true, the average woman's life would be pretty shitty.

>>17947165

That it?

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>>17947300
nope

Mountain biking is better than sex. The rush of descending a steep trail through the woods is fucking awesome.

heroin

>>17946670
Heroin, first time skydiving, ecstasy

I'm on Prozac as a guy so cumming/sex is fun but I mean, there are things I like to do more than that. I get my girlfriend off 2x-3x a day because I love her and her orgasms seem much, much more fun. I feel like men sort of get shafted there in comparison. It's more fun to cum in a woman then masturbating though.

>>17947396
The best feeling in the world is depositing you seed deep inside a woman.

>>17947405

I don't know if I'd describe it as the best feeling but it is certainly quite intense.

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>>17947405
Is it better or worse than the pleasure of being cummed inside?

>>17947437

Worse desu if my girlfriend is any indicator. She CRAVES being came inside man, she becomes a complete animal in heat in bed. She got drunk once and wouldn't stop until I came in her twice and made her cum 4-5 times, it was pretty hot if exhausting.

>>17947437
I don't know. I'm not a faggot.

>>17946670
Not at all, there's plenty out there thats WAY better.

For example, hiking up mountains (adrenaline rush), Smoking a joint for the first time in awhile, bonding with a pet, etc.

Sex only feels good for a couple seconds for a guy then its gone. Now if you were a woman then yes sex is the best thing in the world pretty much.

>>17947405
>>17947415
>tf only have ever came inside women
>it's never been that great

>>17946670

Sex isnt the best thing you csn experience as a human. Its just thr most basic and primal.
Eating good food is comparable to having good sex, so if you want to replace sex replace it with food.

Otherwise just pick up a hobby you think you'll like.

>>17946670
Heroin.

Don't try it, you'll be chasing that dragon til you die

>>17946670
"enjoyable" differs and you can sort of have different kinds of enjoyable. Many people don't like sex at all and some have done it so much that it is rather mundane and not that enjoyable. So no, I'd say there is no objectively most enjoyable activity the average human can experience.

>>17947184
I'm a guy, and sex is a main proponent of relationships.

>>17947265
That's why opiates are so addictive. Don't do heroin, kids.

>>17946670
Snow skiing is better than sex

>>17946670
taking a shit
taking a piss
getting your ear cleaned by somebody
a 1 hour shiatsu massage
driving a car along a vehicle-less 300 km long highway
sleeping in a cozy raining weather with your thicc blanket wrapping around you while listening to a classical song and reading a profound literature book

>>17946670
Reading a book, traveling, writing, almost any form of self enlightenment? Improving upon yourself? Sex is great but so often used to fill gaps in people's lives. The best sex I believe will always be with a loving partner who is in a healthy relationship with you. Otherwise it's nothing but shots of morphine or lines of coke.

>>17946718
kek pretty sure that wasn't an invitation for advice

>>17946670
I've never had sex but at 22 porn has substituted it pretty well and all my desire goes into ambition and pride at career.

None of its working though my life is in shambles, but sex is not one of them. It just isn't something I find reliable as a source of enjoyment. You crave it despratley for who knows how long and it can be all over very quickly, not garantreed to be enjoyable, hard to get, possibly risky with pregnancy, create drama and you really have nothing to show for it after. Maybe bragging rights if that's the kind of person you are. Money seems like a far better and longer lasting reliable form of enjoyment to pursue.

>>17948462
You're not alone.

MDMA

But I've never had sex with someone like I genuinely liked so I dunno if that makes a difference