So I just found out this girl i've known for a while and liked for a while whos in my friend group is dating a guy she met online now. Just saw her snapchat talking about it and whatever and I am confused with my emotions, I feel like really down and whatever but also kinda not. Its weird to explain but I am in the middle of emotions going back and forth a little bit and I dont know how to handle this and what to feel. First thing that is first tho and I know 100% i am cutting contact for my sake as well as hers even though I feel like she wouldn't give a shit that much since she has him now. But part of me feels like shit about it and part of me feels happy she found someone to make her happy. I dont know whats going on.
>>17944175
bump
>>17944175
I think I just feel relived to know the truth because I had a feeling she was dating a new guy since she started to talk with me alot less and the conversations ended very quickly so at least I know why now, but still im just confused on how im feeling right now.
>>17944175
Anyone able to help? Hell i'll even just take someone to vent and talk with at this point. It just keeps getting worse and worse and I fear that im in denile still and it'll hit me soon.
You did the right thing anon. I was in a similar situation a year ago. knowing she will never give 2 fucks about losing you even as a friend is hard to swallow but it goes to show she was a shit person for you. Let her chase whoever she's after. You'll find someone that digs you for being you. Cliche reply but it really is as simple as that
>>17944388
Its weird because cutting contact to me feels like two things. It feels like the right thing to do but I think deep down I am really doing it to try and get a reaction out of her and I only thing that because I wouldn't care that much about her ignoring and not giving a shit about me cutting contact unless I am going for a reaction. I have no idea whats going on with me right now I am getting torn apart in 10 different directions while shes sitting at home talking with her bf.
>don't make a move on a girl
>be butthurt that she's dating someone else
???
>>17944416
Its a long story but she made it clear that she didn't like me past a friend, but I still wanted to be her friend since i've been for 2 years now and I really loved talking and hanging out with her. Its just to have all this taken away from me so quickly I feel kinda in shock also, idk its just weird for me she is the first girl i've ever connected with and cared about and now shes gone.
>>17944420
WA HA HA! You are a faggot! This is the absolute top thread! It's a pleasure to be a part of it