I've been dating this girl for a while now, and what was great at first has turned into what feels like hell for me now.
She feels like she's controlling everything I do in my life, and it's scary. She always guilt trips me and always has to get her way. She tried to stop me from seeing a friend I haven't seen in 5 years, but I still got out to see him. She pretty much forces me to have sex with her by making me feel like shit and getting all aggressive and threatening me, leaving me to feel like shit afterwards.No matter what, I'm always in the wrong, and she always walks away when I try to make a point, and forces me to apologize. She stopped me from changing from university and threatened our relationship and said I wouldn't leave my course if I cared about her. She stops me from doing my hobbies and I can't have fun anymore. I can give more details on what she does if someone asks, but in a nutshell I need help, and I don't know what to do with her.
>>17942961
Leave. Like any abusive relationship, this will only get worse. Don't wait for her to change, don't have some vain 'She'll be nice eventually' ideal, just get out.
>>17942971
Surprising that that's exactly how I was thinking, that she would get better. Man, I'm scared to leave her because she's threatened to kill herself if I do because of some other stuff. I just don't want that on my conscience.
>>17942994
That's very typical abuse tactics. She won't kill herself, and even if she does it's not your fault, and that's not your responsibility.
>>17942961
Dump her. She's insane.
>>17942994
It's bullshit. She says that only because you believe her. Dump her immediately, or like >>17942971 said it will only get way worse. She doesn't really love you, get away while you still can.
>>17942994
>>17943008
You have to think about your own wellbeing first in this situation. Please get out, you'll find someone new.
>>17943008
>>17943010
>>17943012
I hope you guys are right, and yeah, I suppose that's all that should be done right now. There's many things I haven't listed that lead me up to this post, but I'm happy you guys gave me a proper answer this quick. I appreciate it