I really need your help /adv/
My dad drank himself out of 2 marriages with 3 children.
I feel that I'm inclining to alcohol as well.
I feel happier after 3 beers. Happier, than I am usually.
I lead normal life. I go to Uni, I have a beautiful caring GF, family, enough cash to get by and have some spare. But every time I go to a pub and have a few beers + few shots, I feel amazing.
wat do? I dont want to end up like my old man. Convince me not to dring please.
Do you want to stop or have some reinforcement for moderation?
>>17941546
allow yourself only 3 beers a week.
Cut that shit out and tell anyone you live to make sure you don't touch it either. Having it offered should be fine, but none in your own possession. Some people just can't handle unlimited access to booze.
>>17941580
Well, I never drink too much.
Never drink at home
Never drink too much. Which means, I always have control of myslef. Never stutter, never allow anyone else to know, that I drink.
>>17941594
How do I do that?
I pretty much drink only cuz I know that I can. Meaning that I can drink, because nobody will find out
>>17941630
Well shit. I basically have unlimited access. Unless I am at home, which is like 4 times per week
Dont be such a debbie downer. Your dad did alot more wrong than drink alchohol. You are gonna be better off if you have kept your job and relationship so far
>>17941631
>how do i do that?
by having self control. if you can't do that, then why are you even asking for advice, literally anything boils down to you making a choice and sticking with it.
even AA requires some amount of self control.
>nobody will find out
be open. you are a light drinker. you limit yourself to 3 a week because after that it makes you feel too hungover.
>>17941642
Well I have enough self control to drink only when I can. Dont think that it's healthy or good though
>>17941654
I have enough self control to only drink when there is no reprecussions. And I drink like 9 per week, depending on my work time