Does it mean anything, when my ex( whom I was with for 4 years, and now has a new boyfriend) reaches out to me, saying how sorry feels for the way our relationship ended and how she feels like she doesn't know me anymore. She want's to know how I am and so on... Note that I have been keeping no contact for 3 months now. I feel good now and I kinda sense, she knows that, giving we have mutual friends, social media and so on..
thoughts?
>>17940814
Nope. Close that door. Even if she feels bad, regardless of her reasoning, you continue to ignore her. She did you wrong, and no way is she going to get the satisfaction of messing with you again.
>>17940814
>I have been keeping no contact for 3 months now
>3 months
stopped reading at
Don't think about responding, at least not until she tells you what she ACTUALLY wants. And it has to be blatant.
Try eight months, and then we'll talk.
>>17940814
If you're over her, reply cordially. If not, just ignore the messages
>>17940814
Her new boyfriend treats her like shit so she has come back to her second choice to feel wanted. Dont be her doormat
Don't respond anon. My first ex did this. She emailed me on Valentine's day than a week later on my birthday. We were 6 months apart. On my birthday I called her out on it asking what she wanted. She turned on me and tried to make me out to be a weirdo "who looks into things too much". I should have never responded and never did after that