I'm an 18yr old guy who can be described as 'feminine'. I am 5ft 5in (167cm), and have been since I was 12, have no facial hair at all, I wear 'androgynous' clothing and have a 'girly smile' and facial expressions (according to various people).
The thing is, I'm comfortable with that. I'm not one of those guys looking to change who I am just to attract more partners. I obviously am a more elegant feminine guy acting covertly. I wouldn't wear something like a dress or high heels that would bring attention to myself or my partner and make them highly self conscious in public. I also don't have camp behaviour. I reject the 'base-masculine' for a more andro-feminine look but keep assertiveness and dominating behaviour expressing it in a more soft manner rather than an aggressive one.
Thing is, I'm graduating in June 2017 and going into college. I currently don't have any friends let alone a woman or man to possibly get into a relationship with. It's not a priority however I would like one.
Cutting out the BS, I know that a good number to 'majority' of women prefer more masculine men in the world. Even a lot of gay men prefer masculine men. Not necessarily alphas but quite an element of masculinity.
My question is, will it be hard to date in college? I'm bisexual and willing to date both sexes however maybe more geared towards women.
>>17940062
>I'm bisexual
yea, say that first, faggot
back to tumblr now
>>17940062
>will it be hard to date in college? I'm bisexual and willing to date both sexes however maybe more geared towards women.- 0 post shown.
yeah you really shot yourself in the foot now. majority of woman on this earth even feminist ones don't fuck with bi guys.
idk its possible but its not gonna be a normal relationship and definitely not something you tell them from the start. I always find art girls to be more open to this stuff so hang around those types.
>>17940089
> art girls
Not to be stereotypical or judgemental but are 'art girls' those who usually have multicolored dyed hair and dress quite low maintenance?
>>17940131
>but are 'art girls' those who usually have multicolored dyed hair and dress quite low maintenance?
sometimes they dress like that yes
>>17940089
> its not gonna be a normal relationship
Can confirm this. I have a really odd guy friend, a black feminine guy very much like the OP with the exception of race (don't know OP's race). He was really quiet, weird and failed to make much friends when he was in secondary school. I honestly thought that if he found any decent girl, there would be something wrong with her. STD's, promiscous, mentally ill etc
Turns out, I was right. An older college girl from Australia took interest in him. She was more of a posh hot girl than a sexually hot girl. Not a skank definitely cute. They dated for about 3 months.
Then she got pregnant after sex but didn't tell him and decided to break up because they were 'a few problems'. Even denied being pregnant to him when he asked.
Got a call 4 years later that he has a child living in Australia with his grandparents and his mother is jobless and depressed doing hits of heroin.
So much for normal.