Erection help

>>17934851
>Any tips on how I can more easily get my little buddy to spring to attention?
Be more attractive

>>17934855
Lets just suppose I'm hoping for answers that don't require me to be a different human

>>17934894
If your boyfriend doesn't have any health problems and it's not nerves, and I assume it's neither of those things because you didn't mention them, then it's probably you.

Don't worry OP, there's a good chance it's not "just you". I'm a guy and I have a difficult time getting hard, even with girls I find really attractive. I thought it was just nerves but it still happened when I was in a long term relationship, it's just how my body works. Personally, if I try to jump right in to sex it takes the longest to get an erection. It's easiest for me if both me and my partner are clothed and there's a possibility of sex happening but it's not for sure. Basically, foreplay helps a lot. It's almost necessary for me. I need to be teased a bit, and once I get it up, it needs pretty constant attention or I lose it. Your boyfriend may be having a different issue, though. This is just my experience.

>>17934894
You can't really make your bf hard if he thinks you look disgusting. Alternatively, he could be addicted to masturbating/porn or something which fucked up his cock.

>>17934894
It's called going to the fucking gym and doing squats/deadlifts atleast twice a week. It will increase your attraction by a major amount.

It's not hard, i go to gym 4-5 days a week.

But to answer your original post, don't give him sex and don't touch his penis. BUT dress provocatively and act like a flirty slut sometimes but give him NOTHING.

He will begin to get hard because his penis will want to have sex with u but you don't give it to him.

100% works. Read my post or close thread.

Maybe he's nervous? Try to get him to relax as much as you can when having sex.

Otherwise it might be an issue with him masturbating and watching too much porn, ask him if that's that case and suggest he tone it back.

>>17934929
What's the point of wanting to get him up if I'm just going to deny myself playing with it?

>>17934931
He's pretty chill, and seems really comfortable in his body. He walks around naked all the time, and is very affectionate. Pretty sure it isn't nerves.

>>17934851

if you really love him, you'll let him have sex with your brother.

>>17934971
Seriously? it's called teasing, it's called the chase it's called wanting something they cant have. IT BUILDS DESIRE!

If he doesn't get hard around you then he feels uninterested in you. It's not rocket science, people want what they don't have.

My dick usually only stays hard on its own for 10 seconds max if im bot stimulating it myself. Even if in turned on and dripping precum. At first I was worried and thought something is wrong but it's just how it works. I usually don't have problems staying hard during sex so there is no issue. Just like some women think most men can keep a boner when eating them out for 20 minutes. Dicks are different and what worked for you in the past might not work for you now. Some girls have sensitive nipples some don't. Definitely do the teasing though. Seeing my girlfriend dress up for me and be all slutty gets me going really fast.