How do I build self esteem. Please be straight up about it.
Posting sexy stuff for attention since that's what you people want.
Workout a bunch. Read a bunch. Take extra shifts at work for extra dosh. Use extra dosh to invest in self (do interesting things).
I'm doing it, although my everything hurts so I'm working out again 5 days a week (saturday cardio) and I feel better about myself already. More out of hatred for others and how I'll be better than them soon, though.
p-pls more chi chi
>>17934404
Ask yourself the first question:
Why do you have low self esteem?
Maybe it's for a reason
>>17934404
Join the military. Do so much shit, go so many god damn places, put up with so much petty/major bullshit that you get to a point where you just do not give a claw footed fuck about what others think of you.
Worked for me.
>>17934446
That's the thing. I stick to a workout routine for a few months then fall off.
>>17934464
How long did it take for you to become numb to mean things? I hate it when people imply I'm defective in any sort of way
>>17934452
I never felt good about myself. I kid you not. Allllllll the way back in kindergarten I used to be called fat Albert fir obvious reasons. Sure now I lost the weight but at 18 years old, everyone has it so perfect. Everyone will question why you can't do a cert thing when they say it's essy. hell if I say something is hard for me my 13 year old brother says "oh its easy".
Whenever I asked my parents for help with bullies they'll tell me to feel good about myself and that only I can see myself better. But they made it sound so simple. They didn't explain self esteem and confidence in a way I can better myself without doubting myself. Maybe its because I'm supposedly very mildly autistic
>>17934464
>How long did it take for you to become numb to mean things
It wasnt the time i spent its what ive overcome shit that i have watched John Everyman give up before even starting.
"Man i cant believe the company is making us share a room this is bullshit. And for a whole week? Dude i dont think ive gone 2 days without getting my dick suck"
Then i just remember the times where i was just thankful i had time to sit and eat. So when most of the genpop is made up of people like that, their opinions of me dont matter a fuck.
>>17934581
i have no idea how i responded to myself while quoting you but...whatever.