How to completely give up upon women?
How can i just leave my desire for a partner?
Is there a pill i can take so i can leave any romantic interest behind?
Is there a way to castrate myself mentally?
Unfortunately not - overcoming your desire for women and being happy in solitude is something we all have to struggle through. Forcing yourself to see women and men as basically the same helps a lot though. Some hormone supplements can cut your sex drive, but won't cut any romantic feelings or loneliness you may experience.
>>17934292
Fuck. I punish myself physically whenever i feel any kind of romantic desire. Cons to this?
>>17934141
Stop being a man
>>17934304
So do i become a trap?
BUMP.
>>17934141
thats like asking how to stop eating.
you can control your urges so you do not over indulge, but the urges are still going to be there.
you dont have to date, you dont have to flirt, you dont have to pursue.
but you have to deal with the feelings when they arise. giving up on women doesn't change your biology.
>>17934141
>>17934706
that being siad, have you considered replacing romantic interest? have you considered exploring masculinity? have you considered deepening your other bonds to make up for whats lacking?
>>17934706
I just don't want to ge distracted anymore. Thanks anyways.
>>17934708
Yes i've considered it, it has worked at some extent.
>>17934842
too bad?
>>17934857
I just want to walk through my university freely, without looking at girls anymore, i spent most of time there to distract me.
>>17934863
that iwll never happen.
so you can whine and yearn,. or you can pick a more realistic path: resisting temptation isntead of removing it.
>>17934867
any ideas to resist easier? I don't want to lose more time in trying to date or anything, i've never manage to get anything from anyone, pointless.
>>17934141
>Is there a pill i can take so i can leave any romantic interest behind?
the redpill
>>17934878
just dont talk to women for anything other than professiona lreasons if ur that much of a pussy.
>>17934141
>Is there a pill i can take so i can leave any romantic interest behind?
Yes. Your average sleeping pill will take care of that. You have to take a whole bottle though.
>>17934884
took plenty of them, still believe i could find a good woman.
>>17934887
i already restrain myself to just very forced interactions.
>>17934892
ayy
>>17934917
>i already restrain myself to just very forced itneractions
than give up. there is no magic that will save you.
>>17934924
Nah, he'll be fine some womans like when you don't make time for anyone else.
>>17934924
that's my fucking point, i tried to not deal with women as much as possible but i still have this feelings, i can't just give up.
>>17934930
except i've been like this for 3 years and nobody has cared about me lmao
>>17934878
You should start from the top and go to the next one if the current one isn't working for you:
- desensitize yourself with porn
- go through a messy, protracted, deeply personal breakup
- become gay
- develop autism
- castrate yourself
- just get distracted because it's no big deal
>>17934939
I forgot a step
- whine on 4chan
that would go immediately after "- castrate yourself"
>>17934939
Porn makes me wish i wasn't forced to watch porn because i'm lonely.
I had too many problems already.
I've got fucked in the ass but didn't like it.
I was diagnosed asperger already
Can't. too coward for that.
I work, study, learn german and japanese, go to the gym and more. still my mind makes a way to think about womyn
>>17934141
desu I started taking antidepressants and although I'm not really happier my libido is way down.
>>17934953
i also noticed this back when i had depression. But i won't fuck up my brain just because of this.
>>17934141
Yes, i read months ago an article in the NY times (or scientific american) that for overcome a breakup you can use ( acetaminofen- spanish word) so you can get it in any pharmacy, it has to with some shit chemestry but it seems it works. You can search it if you want.
>>17934947
how old are you? you might still just be hormonal from puberty, that shit can last and resurge my aspie nigga
>>17934141
Other than killing yourself or getting a sex change I don't think it's possible, although maybe there's something to the antidepressants.
I just quietly accept the fact that I'm not ever going to be good enough for women because I don't have the confidence or masculinity that they desire. I kind of wish women would court men more, and hell sometimes I see it happen, just not with me, so I assume I'm just awkward and ugly and women don't like me by default.
There is honestly no permanent way to make the feelings go away. You just suck it up and deal with it like you do any other insecurity.
>>17934976
>acetaminofen
paracetamol?
>17934983
21
>17934993
>women don't like me by default.
me too
>>17935038
Yeah paracetamol.
>>17934961
well if you're depressed then your brain is already fucked up, but yeah if you're not then it's a bit silly to start using them.
>>17935045
i had depression, HAD. not anymore.
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