Low sex frequency

>>17933799
Sorry opie, if you're having boring sex, it's probly because you're a shitty lover. Admittedly there have been girls that are better or worse, but people can be taught.

>>17933799
Spice up your life OP. Pin her down one day. Start getting into kinky crap, or acting like you want to get her into kinky crap. Go to your local sex shop buy crap and put it where she'll see it. Talk to her about. Go see a marridge counsler/shrink. Sex is great OP. If sex isn't great for you, its never to late to figure out how you can make it great for you.

>>17933799
Average doesn't mean anything - you date a singular person, not a statistical group. Even if on average males and females want different things (and I'm not so sure it is even true) you can still meet one person who fulfills your needs.

>>17933834
I know I can talk her into doing stuff but still I'd be controlling the course of everything in the end, which brings things back to >feels like fucking a living doll

I try getting her into porn to expand her horizons but sometimes it feels like getting a cat to become interested in physics.

>>17933850
That's like saying everyone can be above average surely.

It's like with wages, on average men aren't going be able to find a wife who earns as much as them. There's no two ways about it.

I have a hard time believing the frequencies on that chart.


I'm 37 male married gets it about once every 6 weeks. Use to be at best once every 3 weeks.

>>17933870
You have a hard time believing you're in the bottom 20%?

>>17933864
But how do you know that on average guys and girls don't want the same things?
And how do you know that if you searched enough to find someone who wanted the same things you do, you couldn't find it?

>>17933905
I'm sure I could find it - I've searched for such girls before but invariably you have to compromise on looks.

I've been in a relationship with a girl I was sexually compatible with but not physically attracted to before and I find my current relationship to be preferable to that in the end. After a decade of searching I had to decide at some point this was the best I could do.

>But how do you know that on average guys and girls don't want the same things?

Because you don't see women paying for explicit porn and prostitutes nearly as much.

And why would they be equal? What evolutionary advantage would it serve for girls to have the same sex drives?

Thats a pretty cool chart bruh. I notice that 26% of partners are having no sex, whereas only 9% are having very little sex. Having very little sex sucks. I'll tolerate it for a time, but not as a status-quo.

>>17933799
You're borderline assexual and your gf is having dick somewhere else

>/thread

>>17933964
If I'm borderline assexual then she's double assexual

>>17933970
So you're the perfect couple

You say you're uninterested in sex, how'd you expect her to be? And how the fuck do you marry someone with whom you don't have sex???

>>17933981
Codependence

>>17933938
What's the point of being with someone you're very attracted to if you're not having grest sex with them? Not meant in a condescending way, just honest curiosity. To me the whole point of being with someone very attractive is that I get to fuck them.


It's easier to get sex for girls.
Why should someone pay for something they can get for free?

In my experience (which is admittedly limited) girls feel less the physical need to fuck but satisfied girls want sex as much as guys. All the girls I know who have a lot of sex don't have it because they cannot control themselves, but because their partner makes them orgasm. They didn't want as much sex when they didn't come.

>>17933989
>What's the point of being with someone you're very attracted to if you're not having grest sex with them?

Just to feel like I have something like family around me I guess. In the past my main motivations to get a gf were mostly just to not feel lonely to be honest.

>>17933989
>It's easier to get sex for girls
>Why should someone pay for something they can get for free?

That just proves my point that guys want it more than women. If they wanted it as much it would be a level field.

>>17934017
Yes and no.
In my experience sex is mostly disappointing for girls. I didn't orgasm during intercourse for years, most of my friends never did.
The reason why a lot of girls don't want sex is that it isn't enjoyable. My boyfriend rarely doesn't come, it happened to me for the first 5 years of our relationship.

>>17934065
>In my experience sex is mostly disappointing for girls. I didn't orgasm during intercourse for years, most of my friends never did.

I'm a guy and I still haven't ever in my life but that's probably due to condoms not feeling good/worrying about pregnancy

I guess I should encourage her to take the pill

I guess the theory that women don't enjoy sex because most parnters are bad going on here is true

My current gf had never cummed from fingering or oral before me. Her idea of sex was having one, two orgasms with luck, and that was all. Currently she rarelly has less then 3, her lifetime average might be around 6 mind blowing ones, and she wants it regularly

>>17934081
>I guess the theory that women don't enjoy sex because most parnters are bad going on here is true

I don't think it has anything to do with enjoying it/not enjoying it.

Even from an early age when no one is experienced guys show more interest.

>>17934081
How old are you? I'm 24 and my dude gives out after I've had one cum... I want to expand our sex life cuz my drive is pretty high.

>>17934097
Sure, guys have a higher sex drive, but it's not like it is absent in girls.
Girls are a bit slower at it, but still have a sex drive and curiosity.

>>17934097
Like other anons said, women start wanting it when it has good quality.

Man have a need to spread their seed because it's biological. Our bodies don't want to reabsorb the sperm, it wants to expel it.

Of course milage varies, so women do have sexual urges and masturbate, just don't feel the need for it. But when it's good, it's addicting to anyone

>>17934108
I'm 29, started with my gf at 21.

Either teach him to edge while fucking, or to cum twice or more.

I have to admit I have always being an adept of fulfilling her needs before cumming because I didn't want to depend on getting it up for second round, but man are fully capable of it too. We just usually lack the confidence to try. A few weeks ago I came twice in less then 30 minutes and I hadn't done that in years, so we're trying to "rewire" me to do that more frequently