Whats this sound like

>>17933413
holy fucking shit man. she doesn't want to talk to you because you're acting like a needy, desperate child already

>>17933421
This came outta nowhere, we were talking one day then the next this shit happened. I was never needy I jsut text her random shit and she is giving cold responses with no clear reason why.

>>17933429
I was exactly like you are right now when I was in high school. exact same thing happened. I even dated the girl, and she just randomly stopped giving a shit about me in the middle of it, and that made me worry like you are right now which just led to me being needy and now we hate each other.

you're worrying because she takes 20 minutes to respond to a text? that is needy. you are probably used to her texting more often than that (the girl I was talking about would respond almost immediately to texts), but you have to understand more than 20 minutes between responses is normal. My current friends take hours to respond because we have lives that we are busy with.

Yes, she is getting fucked by a guy, and possibly replacing you with him. She already made up her mind and only responds to you at all out of obligation since you have been friends for a while, but the truth is that friendships just end for no reason over time and you have to let go

>>17933461
Its killing me because I want to cut contact to feel better but its so damn hard because she was a part of my life, we would talk and share so much and now its just empty and I have no idea how to fill that void to move on and make peace with this.

>>17933482
yeah those were my exact thoughts when I was at that point. going to college made me busy enough that I was over it before I even realized.

Nigga, it's normal to feel a little disappointed when someone dials back the attention they give you, but you need to chill, dawg.

Yeah, she probably found another nigga she wanna fuck with. She didn't tell you because she enjoys your friendship, but suspected you'd over-react and abandon her because she doesn't want to fuck with you.

Get over yourself, homie.

>>17933512
>>17933517
Most days after I work part time I am free and home alone doing nothing, the only thing to distract myself is video games but even those only last so long. I have no idea how to distract myself without feeling super lonely about it.

>>17933482
You can't put all your eggs in one basket. Always talk and flirt to a lot of girls until you've found one who gives you the googly eyes, one that makes it apparent that she wants you to ask her out.

Cut your losses now, you're wasting time and effort

>>17933531
yeah that's the secret I think. find a girl who wants you to want her, not the other way around.

>>17933595
That sounds hard, I have no idea where or how to start that process

>>17933688
you can't start a process to finding a girl like that. it either happens or doesn't

>>17933821>>17933688

WRONG

You focus on yourself. Follow your dreams and acheive things. Give her a reason to want to want you.
Act like a leader and she'll follow, everytime

>>17933824
My dreams are way too far outta reach and impossible so I won't be able to follow them.

even if she doesn't, why are you still sticking around? she's been ignoring you, and shit like that! with or without boyfriend, I think it's time to value yourself and get the fuck away! don't beg love, mate! you deserve more than that!

>>17933830
Those are the best dreams thatll get bitches pussies wet wtf

"Shoot for the stars, if you fall you land on a cloud." - some nigger