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This is going to be hard to write.
My best friend, who ive known for 6 years...i recently cut all contact with her. Shes 16 im 18. We're both girls.
The reasons for why are complicated.
We dated for a month once but broke up because we still acted like friends even as a couple.
Flash ahead a year and she started dating this boy who got her into smoking weed and he...he had sex with her. He took her virginity. That killed me on the inside when i found out.
Hes in jail now because she was only 15 and he was 19 when they had sex. He got 8 years. She says shes going to wait for him even though i told her how she has no future with him because of his crimimal record and how much of a scumbag he is.
She said she doesnt care. And that hes the most important person in her life and that she masturbates and cries just thinking about him. I told her that i still liked her and she said that she loves me but we're just like sisters, not lovers.
Even though she keeps giving me mixed signals of affection. "I love youuu baby goodnight" types of texts and kisses! On the mouth! What the hell! If she doesnt want me over him why would she even do that!
I confronted her about this and she got really angry and told me that i was a bitch for interferring in her relationship and that she would never choose me over him.
I dont want her to be my friend anymore. I have enough friends. So I confessed. She constantly talked about him and made me feel so inadequate compared to him. I tried to move on. I told her i hated her and all kinds of things a few days ago.
But i keep grabbing my phone and wanting to call. Or text. Or looking at pictures of us. Ugh...i hate who she became after meeting him. But if her gets out of jail and i saw them together again it would BREAK ME. He would make her smoke again and lie to her parents. I dont know what to do...im such a weak person
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>>17928935
honestly sounds like your "lover" is a horrible person
shes flirting with you and she got an innocent kid thrown in jail. she probably has another guy you don't even know about.
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>>17928940
Not really innocent, is he? He fucked an underage girl. Regardless of whether she agreed to it or not, it's statutory rape in the eyes of the law (assuming this is the UK).
She sounds like a massive cunt, but no more than the average 16 year old is. OP, she's a bad influence and you need to separate yourself from her. People like this seem to get off on drama and you really don't want to get tied up in it.
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>>17928935
she's into dick OP and if she's into dick and you ain't got one you are out of luck. Oh, she'll not wait for him and he got 8 years so he must have done something worse than fucking a 15 year old. She'll find another guy soon so the I love you's will cease
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>>17928957
To be fair she also sent him naked pictures. Distributing child pornography is a serious offense. They write letters and call each other on the phone and she visits him in the cell every month....
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When i asked her how she felt about me
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Why did i save these
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This hurts
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>>17928996
stop letting a fucking 15 yr old bully you ffs. unless you're ugly as shit you can get a new gf in a week.
My friend is a lesbian and she avoids bi-sexual girls like the plague. do the same
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>>17929003
Shes 16 now. Turning 17 in a few months. Its not like shes just some random girl i met on tinder or something. We were inseparable
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I dont want to flood this thread with any more of these. Im crying too much to look at them anymore
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Cut off all contact and don't renew it untill you find yourself a girlfriend. A romantic relationship is obviously not gonna work with her, and the sooner you become truly aware of that, the better
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She's clearly in love with the guy. Stop being jealous and blaming him, and find someone else.
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>>17928935
You were 12 and she was 10 when you met. I certainly hope you are not the same person today you were back then. And it is perfectly natural that she isn't either.
Then comes the unhappy part - whatever the two of you had six years ago, you have grown up in different directions, and the person she is today and the person you are today have very little in common.
Be honest - if you met her today for the very first time, would you be attracted? You are in love with the memory of the girl she once was, and that girl doesn't exist any more.
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>>17928935
Fake as fuck story or you live in a shitty country. That's 100% legal here
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>>17928940
>got an innocent kid thrown in jail
Nothing in the story suggests that she did anything to get him in that position. That leaves his own actions. Not like she raped him.
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>>17929346
Youre an idiot.
>>17929341
I just love the good times we had so much. Its hard to have mornings without her
>>17929313
Hes a bad influence on her
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