My gf told me via text that she didn't have the same feelings

>>17920943

its already over man. if you managed to convince her to stay with you it would just be the last year all over again. and even if it was good for you, you must remember that it was a lie, and it was hell for her.

we like to think that when we get that 'second chance' we're going to make things right. but we don't. at best we continue on as if nothing happened, and then the other person is stuck in the relationship they hate until they boil over again.

and again, thats the best case scenario. in reality you will likely convince her, then agonize about how to 'win her back'. she wont know what you can do, netiher will you. you'll try nothing, or worse you'll try something grand, and it will just make her feel bad.

the ship has sailed anon. a thing isn't beautiful because it lasts.

good luck.

I was in a very similiar situation with my ex. Told me she stopped "having romantic feelings" for me 3 motnhs before she broke up with me, like a week or two I can understand to make sure you really do feel a certain way but that long? Fuck that. Felt betrayed because she never acted any different.

Honestly man you're almost certainly going to break up, shit sucks. Block her on everything, seeing her will only make you feel worse, hit the gym, get immersed in some hobbies. One of those things that can only go away with time

I am going through it right now, 15 years gone.

I cant get a ltr past over 3 years without going through this. Just remind yourself the pros for example you had an honest girl and you had a good time and made good memories. Absolutely do not keep in contact right after the breakup. Feel free to let her know you are down to talk again after a while, minimum 1 year and after that if the thought of meeting her in person again instinctively tells you to hold her or kiss her etc then you gotta keep adding +1 years until the instinct to jump on her and bathe her in affection is gone. Again the important thing is you had a good run :)

Dude i'm literally going through the exact same thing op with my gf except we've only been dating a year and she said she felt like this for a few months and didn't even tell me since last week. We decided to go on a break but I doubt it'll fix anything. In the time I have, I kinda want to be the one to dump her just because she wants to stay friends when I can't fathom that route.

Op I've been in her shoes, I fell out of love with my long term partner of 5 years. I had to be the one to tell him and it was the hardest moment of my life. We were living together for 4. Honestly put at least she's respectful enough to let you know what's going on with her. Three years is a long time and she also probably went over the pros and cons before coming to the ultimate decision. Just allow her to express what she has to say, because it's not easy.

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>>17920943
It is easy for fuckin woman to break up because of so called "Difference in characters" or "because there is no love anymore".
Fucking she can move on and whenever...
She will just sort of waft around with her little perfumes, walking around, letting it swirl into the air here and swirl into the air there, and their little eyes and their little hair, She can working up any fucking guys. While fucking guy... what is he going to do... when he wants to be in love... It is something different, we have to fucking work hard to get a nice, honest, loving girlfriend. It is simple as sex... Fucking guy have to stand while she can lay with her legs spreaded....