How do I stop thinking of myself as ugly?

>>17920926
I'm not tall, I'm 1.65 meters long, I'm black with big ears and a small dick. I was bullied when kid, so I stoo caring about the way I look to other people. I'm like I was born and that's not gonna change. During my lifetime a lot of woman fell in love with me, even many of the hottest girls I've ever met, so fuck it man, stop being depressed. If i could, you can, just don't be a loser, girls dont like that.

>>17920947
That's what I'm trying to do. The question was how do I stop thinking of myself this way. I have tried for many years. I've even had some pretty hot girlfriends or fwb's too

I think the biggest problem that men have is to care too much about women. The value of a person is personality and what you have to offer to other people, if some shitty girl can't see i
That, fuck her. My advice, try to stop impressing girls, Stop trying to look good for girls but for you, start doing things you think they help you to be a better person and more interesting, and maybe go to the gym, it always works for (self-steem)

do us afavor and post a pic of yourself.

You can't trick your brain into thinking you're not ugly. What you can do though, is to stop thinking about how you're ugly. You will do this because it serves you. Does thinking you're ugly help you with girls? No. So why keep dwelling on a belief system that doesn't serve you? The problem you have goes deeper than "I'm ugly", it is how you deal with your thoughts on a more core level.

>>17921093
That is very perceptive of you to say. Thank you

>>17921115
Good luck man! I'd just say watch out for shitty beliefs your brain may have. Those beliefs aren't "you", they're what your brain thought of, so you can just sort of observe them, and they lose all power