...but I still think it will change. Will it?

>>17918467
cont.

Will I be able to change her into a semi-normal human being or should I leave it to someone who can?

Is this all women?

We've been together for 1.5 years, live together for 6 months

damaged down to the core. no chance of changing there.

>>17918472
Lol no, you just picked up some borderline loser.
Try finding someone better next time, and use this experience to weed out any more crazy.

If some cunt did this to me I'd genuinely leave her toothless.

>Will I be able to change her into a semi-normal human?
Maybe. Maybe not. If you can it will require a lot of studying and effort. Even if you can it's not worth it.

>Is this all women?
No. Yours is a special kind of crazy.

>apartment that I pay half for, but it's in her name
>put up with all that shit
>think about changing her instead of moving on
You have issues too. Different kind of issues but issues nonetheless. Cut your losses now, before you see yourself married with her expecting children while being constantly abused.

>>17918506
I'm really afraid of her killing herself over this, even just to spite me. It will follow me the rest of my life and damage all my future relationshits

>>17918496
I genuinely think that beating her every time she pulls something like that would make stuff a thousand times better. Some days i swear all the logic and apologies don't work, so all I can think of is smashing her around a little bit so she knows her place..

Never did, not really my kind of relationship though

>>17918467
goddamn have some self respect, this woman is walking all over you and yet you want to try and fix it.

To answer your question. No you cannot change her the only thing you can do is shut up and live with her behavior or leave and to your second question, no all women are not like this.

>>17918511
lol. I never understood how you people fall for this kind of shit.
She won't kill herself. She doesn't want to. People who kill themselves never use it as a bargaining chip.

What's the alternative, anyways? Get blackmailed into being abused for the rest of your life or until she gets bored with you and finds someone else to torment? Grow a pair, buddy, even if she killed herself, which she won't you wouldn't have to deal with it for the rest of your life, unless you remain fixed on it. All emotions have a purpose, even hatred and resentment. Falling from love to hatred is pretty easy, especially if you've been mistreated by the person you love. Learn how to hate her and her death would bring you only satisfaction. Damn, I'm being extra edgy today. Don't worry, it won't get to this.

Break up with her. If she threatens suicide call all her coworkers, all her friends, all her family to tell them about it and how you're so "worried" that she might do something and that she needs them to be supportive. Then call the police and whatever suicide prevention shit you have in your area. Just so that she has to deal with all that shit and she knows threatening suicide is a big deal, not a blackmail method. Bonus points if you can get her admitted in a mental health facility. God knows she needs it, maybe not for suicidal thoughts, but for other things for sure.

>>17918579
>lol. I never understood how you people fall for this kind of shit

All I ever wanted in a woman in the beginning before all of this shit. Still cling to it, but know what I must do. Thank you all so much.

>>17918467
there is far, far more negative than positive here. and no, you cant change anybody. they can only change themselves (if and when they actually want to)

leave this nutter

her b/s suicide threats are not a reason for you to stay.

>>17918467
wait till she goes out of town for a few days and just move out and let her return to find out shes obligated to pay your share of the rent now.