Should I break up with gf

>>17918450
You should realize that every relationship ends up this way eventually. In reality you're just bored and want new girls to date right?
If you really want a marriage she sounds like the girl to marry because she sounds loyal and loving and decent, these women are hard to find these days.
If you really don't want this anymore be prepared to maybe regret this decision 20 years from now.
You should talk to her about this and see if you can spice up the relationship with either sex or just changing up the routine. Who knows maybe she's bored too and wants to fuck other people.

Been there bro, ended up marrying her. I think at the end of the day you just have to forecast out 15 years and ask yourself if she'd make a good partner you could live with. Loyal honest bitches are veeeery hard to come by. You could always study abroad and bang some foreign girls to get the itch taken care of.

>>17918470
When did you meet her, and when did you marry her? Did you ever cheat on her? I feel like cheating on her would just make me lose all respect for her which is something I don't want to do.

>>17918468
But how do you talk to someone about this and not make things weird forever? I should mention that we broke up once when we were 18 for a couple weeks. For pretty much the exact reasons I listed here. Ever since, she's been clingier than before, I'm right back in that trap.

We never fight. I think its because we are both afraid of losing the other. I blow up on her sometimes, and she rolls over everytime. She is incapable of talking or fighting things out. She just lets me yell until I get so angry. Feels like I'm yelling at a brick wall, then we just continue on like nothing happened. This happens maybe twice a year.

Nope. Don't break up with her. You just need to figure out a way to reanimate the spark; almost all relationships fall out of love eventually.

I'm in a 4-year relationship and it has been a bit stale for 6 months. I love my woman very much, but the excitement is all but gone except in rare moments when we embrace for a goodbye kiss and I look at her face. You just have to never stop dating your woman. Randomly ask her out on a date. Buy her flowers. Ask her "what can I do today to make you happy" and don't accept "nothing" for an answer. Sometimes you're the one that has to reignite the feelings of romance for yourself, rather than waiting on your partner to do it. If you honestly love her and care about her, it might be hard to do at first (akin to how hard it is to start a workout regimen when you're depressed) but after a try or two, it shouldn't feel unnatural.


And as always, be open and honest with your woman while pulling your language. You should use pluralized phrasing; "I feel like we're in a bit of a rut. Is there anything we can do to spice it up"?

If you guys are meant to be, you'll be.

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>>17918450
>Should I break up with gf

>I am very attached to her

You answered your own question.

Pick up some more engaging fuckin' hobbies and stop going to your girlfriend to entertain you. "The magic is gone" is a line for girls, being the emotional driven creatures they are.