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Caught lying to GF... 2017-01-03 08:02:56 Post No. 17917587
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Long story short my GF caught me in a string of lies about whether or not I spoke or even flirted with some other girl.
I originally lied about even really knowing the girl, where she's from, and what we talked about to keep it from being a bigger issue but she used some tactics weeks later to uncover the truth and I fessed up. I spoke to that girl on a almost regular basis and even flirted with her out of spite because me and GF were having very bad arguments that ended with her "breaking up" with me and taking me back the next day.
I decided to speak to and flirt with other girls because of the things she said to me when arguing like finding her other men(while in the past she did similar things and tried to hide it from me)
I want her to forgive me and take me back. What should I do? Yesterday after raging out she hung up, blocked me on everything(like she usually does) and eventually called to tell me we're done.
Should I go to her house to talk it out? Call her(since it seems she unblocked my number) How can I make this thing right?
What do I even say? I've apologized profusely but she takes my apology and stomps on it with sarcasm and thing like "it took you this long to confess and apologize???"
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>>17917587
tl;dr: Caught lying to GF and she's pissed. I want to save the relationship.
What can I say? Should I go to her house to talk or should I call?
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>>17917587
It's over, you destroyed that trust circle
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>>17917599
Basically this. You lied and broke the trust. Gonna be hard to recover from. Sorry dude.
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>>17917587
>I decided to speak to and flirt with other girls because of the things she said to me
No, you did it because you chose to. Don't be a bitch and pawn off of the responsibility of your actions onto other people. You did that shit. You.
>Yesterday after raging out she hung up, blocked me on everything(like she usually does) and eventually called to tell me we're done.
You need a therapist, not a girlfriend. Take some time to figure your shit out dude because this relationship is a mess and you're a mess. You both have a lot of growing up to do.
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It's over dude. You're blaming her for your flirting and attempted infidelity.
Grow up, and move on.
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>>17917587
OP it sounds like the one who should be asking for forgiveness here is you not her. I wouldn't bother trying to fix this beyond telling her the why of what you told us
>I decided to speak to and flirt with other girls because of the things she said to me when arguing like finding her other men
And then seeing how it goes from there. There's nothing wrong with seeking warmth in a blizzard and hell, good on you for taking a stand and not letting your image slump. That shows drive,that shows you're a catch and if she's not completely retarded it shows her that you don't appreciate her games.
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You fucked up. Let her move on with someone who isn't a piece of shit.
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