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I'm romantically frustrated, what do?

>22
>social outcast
>never had a girlfriend
>never kissed, held hands, had sex, etc.
>somehow out of some strange star alignment I find a girl who's actually interested in me
>feel happiness and excitement for love for once in my life
>she reveals something that's a personal dealbreaker
>try it I find out I can't live with those views
>break it up before it got anywhere
>still never kissed, held hands, had sex, etc.

I was so close. I had it in my hands. The one time I ever got a chance to live a happy normal life gone.

I can't look at people in relationships anymore. All they do is remind me of my frustration and failure. And these things are everywhere. I can't avoid it. Porn saddens me now too, and it used to be a stress reliever. The best way I can describe it is someone dangling something I want in front of my head and pulling back when I try to reach it. And then everyone else telling me "lol its not so hard to grab bro its right in front of you"

I've had this feeling for over a year now. It's practically ruined my life. I'm so lonely and frustrated I don't know what to do. The fact that I got so close too just makes it worse. I probably could have ignored it if I didn't come close.

I also fear that feelings like this make me comparable to Elliot Rodger or something and I don't want to be looked at that way.
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What was the dealbreaker?
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>>17916456
She believes in systemic racism and voted for Hillary.
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>>17916456
She was born with a penis
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>>17916456
She's a colony-dropping zeek.
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>>17916428
>what do?

keep trying. i was like you once until i lost my virginity at 22. if you date more women, you bound to get sex eventually. date a hambeast if you're really bothered
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>>17916456
OP here, religious abstinence.

>>17916485
I've never been lucky with women. I thought that being able to attract that one person means that I'm capable of finding more but so far it's been unsuccessful and I've been getting more and more emotionally unstable which leaves me less desirable.
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>>17916502

So you liked this girl, but because she wouldn't fuck you before marriage, you bailed?

Bro....
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>>17916520
I'm not religious. It conflicts entirely with my view and implies so many other things she thinks about sex.

I tried to be with her and found out I couldn't deal with it.
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>>17916520

That's a perfectly valid reason to bail if he doesn't have the same view or belief.
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>>17916559
You mean the correct belief. OP is a retard and should have locked her down hard. LITERALLY wife material.
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