I want to be loved by someone I can look up to. How do I
A) achieve this
B) get rid of the want?
>>17913822
Be the best person you can be. People want to be around successful people. By being around better people, you will find someone of quality. However, you yourself must also be of quality.
>>17913875
How do I be quality? I have no talents, passions or interests no matter how hard I look for them.
>>17913953
Then get some. No one is born magic with built in amazing qualities. Most people with amazing qualities had a slight advantage in a certain area then ran with it and polished it. Like I have a really good voice so I learned how to do a lot of public speaking.
Just pick an area you have a leg up or an interest in and work on it until its attractive.
Odds are, you can meet a partner in the process with similar interests.
>>17914090
Okay.
What's some attractive and lovable subjects that you can get good at despite of not liking it? I didn't like singing, drawing, writing or playing an instrument, though I was pretty good at them (save for the last) so I got tired and gave up.
>>17914150
Well not liking it kinda defeats the point anon. You wont be as motivated to develop something you dont care about and whoever you meet while doing something you dont like would probably be a very different person then.
Everything you listed is artsy, maybe your just not an artsy person. Im not either. You could get good at something professional, athletic, or just plain interesting.
>>17914267
Well, art is the only thing I've ever had. I fucking hate sports from the bottom of my heart.