How do I stop being so obsessed with beautiful girls?
Sometimes it feels like it's the only thing that matters in life. I have a girlfriend who is very attractive and I get on very well with but I can't help but look at 10/10s at imagine having a life with them even though I don't even know them.
Picture extremely related. Whenever I look at this girl I fall in love with her. Literally the personification of beauty in my eyes.
>>17910711
Who is that woman? Her tits belong in my motuh
>>17910711
what does love actually mean to you OP? Maybe start there.
>>17910731
I know I don't actually love her like I love my girlfriend. It's more infatuation and doesn't really mean anything but regardless, the feelings are strong. I know it's irrational but I can't help the way I feel.
>>17910711
Stop watching porn
>>17910715
Just a random girl on Instagram from my city
>>17910740
What does this have to do with anything? I don't really watch porn that often anyway
>>17910742
Got a link?
>>17910747
https://www.instagram.com/zakiyahsiada/
>>17910745
Porn puts an unrealistic expectation of the opposite gender in your head
>>17910755
But I'm not infatuated with pornstars. Just people I see in real life or on social media
>>17910738
so it's more like lust?
>>17910767
I think it's more than just lust. Even though I have no idea what the girl is like I imagine myself being with her in a relationship, not just what it would be like to fuck her.
Dude, your poor girlfriend. She deserves way better than this.
>>17910772
I personally think lust encompases more than just a sex drive. If the woman's looks were destroyed in an accident, or by disease, the feeling you had for her would probably fade, huh?
>>17910788
Probably. That's how I know it's not real love. I don't think I'd ever do anything with another girl but it's just really distracting and I feel bad about it when I think about other women.
>>17910782
Agreed
>>17910782
this is pretty natural. he obviously means the best and at least feels guilty about it. as long as he doesn't cheat it's all just fantasy.
Stop watching porn.
Stop using social media.
>>17911638
Also, resist fantasizing about these women.
>>17910711
>I have a girlfriend who is very attractive
kek doubt it m8
>inb4 other guys find her attractive too
>>17910782
His gf probably obsesses with handsome dudes as well.
>>17911650
What book is that
>>17911683
Jacques Lacan; Sean Homer
>>17910782
shut up cucking beta gorgeous and beautiful woman are and will always be above plain girls
>>17911663
Well she is to me so idrc what other guys think