>just made girl my gf
>however, we've had chemistry for years and had been dating for a few months
>currently lives in Japan but wants to move to America, and when she does wants to live with me
>I'd love to, but in my studies I've learned that statistically, living together before marriage guarantees fucking things up
>she can tell I'm not enthusiastic about the idea
What do? Women don't listen to logic, and certainly not if I cite literal peer-reviewed evidence
>>17905502
You sound so autistic you'll fuck up the relationship/marriage regardless of whether you live together or not, so it's not really like it matters
Thanks for the laugh anon. I really needed a good one.
>>17905508
I'm also not ready to live with her. That's a huge step, and although I wouldn't necessarily *mind*, above is another reason not to
>>17905511
Lol okay. Keep pretending your autism isn't an issue
>>17905502
>Women don't listen to logic, and certainly not if I cite literal peer-reviewed evidence
I'd be curious to see these papers. Hate to break it to you, but the soft sciences are garbage. I'd take whatever they claim with a grain of salt.
Anyways just tell her you don't feel ready and you'd prefer for her to live near you for a while first. It's okay to be a private person who needs to ease into these situations.
>>17905513
She doesn't think I'm autistic so it'll be our little secret
>>17905518
Why are they garbage?
I would, but the thing is she is talking about a year or more from now. I might hurt her feelings by shutting down her long-term fantasies and I feel like it'd be a bad sign for her