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Not invited to family functions 2016-12-30 04:31:59 Post No. 17904798
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My serious BF and I live together.
He neglected to invite me to this thanksgiving, despite bringing it up to me many times. I told him that it hurt me that he didn't invite me despite him not ending up going to the event. He said sorry and that he understood.
Tonight he went to a family party that he was talking about for a few days, he didn't invite me again. I asked him why he didn't invite me and he said "I assumed you didn't want to go because you've been feeling sick"
I am sick, but only because I am pregnant and nausea comes and goes. I think this is a BS excuse because he should of at least asked me right?
My boyfriend is very shy and introverted, so he naturally hates going to his family's gatherings. I would assume that he would want me there to soften the edge but he neglects to even ask me to come with.
Why do you think he does this?
I've already told him it hurts me once yet he did it again so I feel like it's just going to keep happening.
What should I do?
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He didn't invite you because he'd have to explain you
If he's like me, he probably doesn't have a lot of girlfriends.
So if you showed up he'd be bathed in "Oooooh, you have a girlfriend now? Where was she the last 10 years? Were you gaaaaaay? :^)"
I can understand his reluctance
But fuck, you're pregnant you're gonna have his kid
No excuse for that
You feel like shit because you feel like you deserve to be introduced to his family
And I think you do
Bitch you're pregnant with his kid
You should be more important than his mother
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>>17904811
>But fuck, you're pregnant you're gonna have his kid
Well actually, it's not exactly his kid. I got drunk at a party a few months ago and ended up getting knocked up. I still have no idea who did it.
Still, I feel like this is unfair because we already touched up on this a while ago.
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>>17904811
I've met his family a few times because our families know each other. he does have a HUGE family though, so maybe he is embarassed of explaining me to the ones I have not met.
I just feel worthless like im not worthy of being apart of his family. Its a bad feeling especially because I'm carrying his child. Is he going to hide his kid from his family too?
>>17904839
fuck you dont hijack my legitimate thread
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>>17904839
Kek
OP, it's possible that he has a very peculiar family life. Let me expand.
In my family, me, and any other male in the family except my grandfather act weird with each other. Our humor is very weird and we will nutcheck each other and just be weird in general. I would feel uncomfortable bringing a girl around since my uncle would try to hit on her and probably call me a dicksucker in front of her.
Perhaps he's embarrassed.
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>>17904798
>I think this is a BS excuse
you're right it is a b.s. excuse
this is a red flag like tip of iceberg
and you are pregnant and living with this guy ?
something is wrong here girl
> it's just going to keep happening
and worse things are coming down the line if you stick with this loser
sorry
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