Is it reasonable to stop dating a girl because the distance between you is too far, and only one of you drives?
Like for me its an 80 mile round trip to see her and then go home, which is basically an all day affair.
>>17904051
yes.
distant relationships are difficult. specially if both do not possess enough willpower to overcome its adversities.
>>17904051
Is it 80 miles adjoined by highway? Or is it 80 miles of city driving? That's a very different amount of time. That's only 40 minutes one way?
>>17904058
on the quickest route it takes a little over an hour to get there and back, so its two hours total of driving, more depending on traffic.
>>17904057
Yeah, she doesn't drive at all, so we can never meet half way, or take turns driving to each other's place.
If I continue to see her, I'm just going to be fucking driving all the time.
>>17904051
If she isn't putting in effort to see you, you should end it. A relationship isn't one-sided. It's about being a team.
>>17904074
My girlfriend drives two hours to see me, but she's able to stay for a few days when she gets here. Vice-versa if I go to her, but it's not as often. Do you have a situation where you can stay?
>>17904051
It's perfectly reasonable. It might not feel great, but it's a valid reason.
>>17904051
You have it easy. Try being in a different country. Fuck fuck fuck it all.
Yeah, its normal. I dated a girl for a year who couldn't drive.
Never again man, way too much effort.
>>17904089
try not dating a girl in a different country
i find that helps
>>17904093
lel