Should I Do It?

Part of being mature about sex is realising it's not a big fucking deal; do it or don't but don't put it on a pedestal.
Just try and enjoy yourself and be safe

>>17903048

there is no right or wrong answer. a lot of people say they regret saving themselves for someone special because in their fairytale romance mindset 'someone special' means the person they will marry. and thats just not a thing these days, and it wasn't what it was made out to be back when it was.

that being siad, just one night standing someone can also be filled with regret. gay here, moved to hollywood, lost my virginity to some guy on craigslist. felt great, but it wasn't even a passionate hook up or anything like that.

like the anon above said though is you realize its not that big a deal. its regret the same way i regret getting a burger instead of the chicken at the restaurant i went to last week. its a regret like 'oh i should have put my contacts in this morning'.

it sucks, but its hardly something to really worry about. ask for the guys face and see what happens. if you find him attractive, consider going for it. or just wait.

the big thing here is that you /dont/ need to lose it. i mean at some point sure, but its not really about your first time so much as about your every time. if your 'first time' is whats holding you back from having a fun sex life, then by all means, go lose it. but to just lose it for the sake of losing it then not have sex again til you move kinda defeats the purpose of losing it.

am i making sense?

>>17903168
>>17903168
When I say special I just mean I want to have feelings for them. I guess it really isn't that important and I should get over it but it's easier said than done.

I know I don't have to lose it, and even though I am insecure about still being a virgin it doesn't really bother me that much. I probably wouldn't have sex again until I move because there are just not that many attractive people that live around me.

I'm also really shy and awkward and get anxiety around people so I feel like even if I do it it might not be an enjoyably experience because I'll just be nervous and anxious the whole time.

I also don't want to get and STD but don't want to be the guy who asks for your medical records. And i'm also a really small guy and am afraid if he wants to do something I'm uncomfortable with I can't really stop him.

You're making sense though. It's just a lot to think about for me even if it shouldn't be.

>>17903048
>I live in a small shitty town

not unless you want everybody to know you fucked the town attention whore

>>17903297
Like I give a shit what these dumb ass, hick, mutants think. I hope this state has some natural disaster that wipes it off the fucking map.