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How do I get over a relationship being dead?
He says he still loves me. I used to love him, but after months of him rarely messing me first, not liking 'cutesy' stuff in text, and proposing an open relationship, it's dead to me.
We've been in an LDR for about 1.5 years, and I visited him once for a week. Plan was to visit him again this time during christmas and NYE but I decided not to, because of the reasons above.
He said he was sad that I didn't come, but I can't fucking make out what the hell he wants.
He has all the behaviors of killing a relationship, yet he still got sad I didn't come over, and says he loves me/
All this frustration developed into a hate for him. I want to love him but I don't anymore. And it hurts.
What can I do about it.
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break up, cuck.
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>>17902298
>LDR
Why do people even bother with this shit. Talking to an AI is the same experience.
Break up, find someone close to you, date, be happy.
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>>17902301
Thing is I still have feelings for him, otherwise I wouldn't be invested enough to feel angry about it
>>17902310
I've tried dating people close to me. Not only is it hard to even find one, but i find it hard to connect with anyone. Online there are so many people that it's easier to find someone I am compatible with.
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Self-bump
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Sounds like you need to sit him down and have a serious talk about you two.
Thinks like
>You have been distant lately, is something wrong?
>Do you still feel happy with us being together?
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Holy fucking shit I know that exact feel op
Glad I'm not alone. It's complete hell.
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>>17902619
Exactly this op. If you don't communicate with your partner about this types of things then it will be very difficult to manage the relationship. If something is wrong talk about it, not leave it as it is.
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>>17902298
>We've been in an LDR
surprise LDR are b.s. and you are starting to see why
meet somebody close you can actually visit in person
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>>17902619
Thing is, he is never really happy. He says he was happy when we were together in real life, but that is almost 4 months ago now.
I tried asking him what he wants and he just says he doesn't know.
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