I've been in a relationship with a girl for nearly 3 years and don't feel all that much in love with her. I almost view her as a friend I like to help and make happy more than a girlfriend. The problem is I'm too nice, I know I treat her well and her life would be really shitty without me. I try to bring this up that I don't feel a love connection she breaks down crying and it makes me feel too bad. What should I do?
Break up with her. You're not going to feel any happier with the way things are as time goes by. In fact, you'll probably just end up resenting her because you'll begin to feel trapped.
Man up and hurt some feelings. It happens to everyone. It's not your responsibility to make her happy. She owes it to herself to find happiness without external help, otherwise she's an emotional leech.
>>17900885
Im sorry to tell you but, it will be the same after dating for so long. Unless you want to get a new girl that sucked lots of cocks already..
i dont know about you but i prefer girls that didnt have other dudes cock in mouth
She will break... she might even commit suicide.
>>17900902
You're a fucking dink. If his relationship is already at this point after 3 years and he has no desire to put a ring on it, then it's time to abandon ship.
And if she kills herself, that's not his responsibility. People don't get into relationships with each other to prevent one another from offing themselves.
>>17900943
I agree with this. And I hate when people give themselves so much credit over another persons life. Let her go so she can find someone who does love her!
Allllll break ups are hard but that's the way life goes.
>>17900902
This is the most insecure and completely out of touch rambling I've read today