>Move down by the beach
>qt neighbor my age next door
>cop her number
>she invites me to her party, to hangout 1 on 1 with drinks/weed and to hangout with her best friend (guy) and his gf
>just left a longterm relationship with some ass ugly dude and I also just left a longterm relationship
>she is extremely quiet and shy
>texts me to invite first but hardly texts anything else
Am I friendzoned? Is the relationship different cause we're neighbors? Is she just shy? What the fuck is going on here?
Go to party try to fuck you'll find out the answers pretty quick
>>17897248
She invited me out for New Years, I should probably find out then if I play my cards right
>>17897235
>>she is extremely quiet and shy
>Am I friendzoned?
>Is she just shy?
I tihnk you just replied to yourself
t. shy guy, who is shy even when trying hard not to
>>17897348
I'm questioning whether if she's just shy, or if she is treating me better than average. Never dealt with shy women so I don't know, I figured she wouldn't invite someone everywhere she went if she wasn't somewhat into them but she's so quiet it's hard to tell anything about her
>>17897458
>I'm questioning whether if she's just shy, or if she is treating me better than average
why not both?
try talking/texting more to her, being shy doesn't mean you don't like talking to people, it means she's uncomfortable
>>17897475
Sound advice but I don't think I shy person would like their phone blown up, I also feel as if they have less to talk about. I'll keep the communication for real life only until things pick up but thanks I appreciate the feedback
>>17897550
I'm shy and I could talk about a shitload of topics. but I think myself as a boring person that has no social experience whatsoever
if a girl who liked me talked a lot to me, I'd have no problem responding... the problem is that my responses would be short, at least until we get to know one each other well, then I stop being shy (I'm shy with people I don't know, specially with girls I like a lot, but I have no problems with old friends, family, etc)
Sooooo many posts on /adv/ about guys who are frustrated with girls texting habits.
GIRLS ABOVE AGE 16 DON'T WANT TO TEXT. TEXTING IS FOR INVITES AND SETTING DATES. AFTER A DATE IS SET, GET THE FUCK OFF THE PHONE AND STOP TEXTING HER.
>>17897604
This is what I'm saying m8, I think the girl is short over text simply because it's an obsolete form of communication. In real life she also hardly talks, but she smiles/giggles at my jokes and listens to me talk about existential bullshit. I just can't tell if she's just being nice or if there's a solid connection and it's due to her shy mannerisms, shit is actually driving me crazy
This sounds like a movie script.
>>17897594
Thanks man, even though you're a dude the feedback helps.
>>17897654
Also what? How is this like a movie lol
>>17897661
Some formulaic romantic comedy.
>>17897680
I'm actually happy you said that, this bitch is probably living in fantasy land just like you are