Sex-Ed General

Does dick size really matter, or not?

>>17894823
Unless you have a micropenis, like 4" below or whatever is clinically considered a problem, ir doesn't.

Don't let insecure virgins tell you otherwise

>T. 5.5"

>>17894823
What >>17894825 said.

And in addition to that, it depends a lot on who you're with. Some women have limits to how big their partner can be because they're too sensitive or too small to take a large penis.

Asked in another thread, and didn't get any answers.

Anything I should know before eating ass?

Can an excessive amount of masturbation effect eye sight in anyway or penis growth? Asking for a friend.

>>17894883
As someone who has masturbated 3-5 times a day for several years: no. But other problems will show up.

Such as..?

>>17894883
There's something called orgasm blindness I think, but it's only momentary.

As for penis growth, I think it does, that explains why everyone on the internet is packing 7 inchers

>>17894880

Shit comes out of it

How can I be more confident in telling my boyfriend what I like? I'm so submissive in bed it's hard to feel like I should speak up.

>>17894880
Not really it's exactly what you think it is

>>17894920
Respect yourself enough to believe your desires are valid and speaking up will come naturally

>>17894920
Being submissive in bed is different of being submissive in life. What do you want him to do? Just bring it to the bedroom and ask him to. Everybody is open to kinky shit when they're horny, unless it's over the top creepy like bronies or w/e

>>17894880
Start wide and firm, don't try to do any penetration with your tongue. It doesn't feel all that great, and it will tire your jaw-muscles prematurely.

>>17894900
Your dick will leak a lot of precum long after you've had an orgasm. I remember it would leak out into my boxers, and I'd only notice it when it dried up and stuck my boxers and dick together and pull apart. And let me tell you, that fucking when that happened. Your dick loses a good portion of its ability to feel pleasure, but it also becomes incredibly sensitive to pain, and everything that touches it is really irritating to the skin.

Not only that, but the orgasms in general aren't that great, and it takes a lot of stimulation to get an erection, which by the way, won't be that erect. You'll still be fairly soft/limp while masturbating, so if you're wanting to get off, you either have to resort to new physical methods, or new kinds of pornography (and you don't want to go down that latter path, trust me). Your cum's not that potent looking. Whenever I came, it wasn't very much, and it was always pretty watery looking.

And that's just the physical aspect of it. Masturbating all the time just makes you tired and moody too. Whenever I watched porn several times a day, I was always impatient with other people, and never wanted to do anything, because I didn't have the energy to do anything. Ironically, while abstaining from masturbation made me think about sex more often, sex was less of a distraction. It was only when I caved in that I really wanted to keep doing it over and over again and go back into bad habits.

So yeah, put a lid on it. Give yourself a break every once in a while.

>>17894683
How can I last longer?
Literally cum instantaneously when I'm receiving a bj.

>>17894920
See if you can view it from a different way: You want him to be the most confident, in charge, leader in bed, you have to give him the tools.
Let him know that you are comfortable enough with him to tell him all of your turn-ons without fear of his reaction. Let him know that you're not criticizing his technique, you just want to be able to say he's giving you the best sex of your life.
If he really is the right kind of dom, he probably wants to be able to make you cum as many times as possible.

>>17894950
does it bother you because you feel inadequate, or does it bother you because your partner can't enjoy the experience for as long as you think you should?

I have strep throat and I didn't know it and sucked a guys dick. Can he get strep dick? I've legit been paranoid as shit about this for the past week. He's an actual friend and I would feel bad. I haven't said anything to him. I dunno if it's possible but I feel like maybe it could cause urethritis or something.

>>17894981
>he's an actual friend

Just let him know then, say you're worried about him and that you're not sure, but wanted to let him know and apologize if something shows up to him.

It's nothing that antibiotics won't kill

What do guys like from women during sex?

>>17894981
Strep is caused by bacteria making their home in the moist, dark, mucous tissues of the esophagus. It is unlikely to be able to take root in the urinary tract, especially if he was able to ejaculate, then urinate shortly thereafter.

>>17894987
dick

>>17894936
>don't try to do any penetration with your tongue
I don't plan on it. Thanks for the advice. I'm guessing you've been on the receiving end?

>>17894987

Orgasms

I have a fetish for orgasms. Seeing my gf cum takes me from 0 to throbbing precum leaking erection.

I'm very giving so any signs of enjoynment are very appreciated: moaning, laughing, twitching, lip biting, screaming and so on. As long as it is authentic and not faked, ofc.

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>>17894966
I've only been with a person in my entire life and during the year long relationship I had with her i never could last more than a couple of minutes.
She made it clear that she was unsatisfied, even though I tried eating her out and doing as much foreplay as possible to satisfy her beforehand, I never felt I was 'enough' for her. She even mentioned at some point that I was "selfish".. I know is a really awful thing to say specially coming from someone that supposedly cares about you but in the end I think this was the main reason she dumped me.
I feel both ways about it, I feel like I'm a lesser man for not being able to satisfy a woman with my own resources and I feel awful about not being able to give enough pleasure to someone I care for.

This has also affected my life in other ways.. there have been 8 years since I last had sexual contact with anyone (at least in person..). I've run away from women ever since I was dumped by my first and only gf for this reason, I don't want to go through the same again. As an additional note, I found out she was telling about my poor performance to her friends what further shattered my self-stem and trustfulness in people.
I also feel that I lack motivation because of this.. i don't see the point of trying 'too' hard since at the end I couldn't get as much pleasure out of life as anyone else.

Btw, if I sound obsessed with my ex, that's not really the case, I got over her long ago, but she's pretty much my only frame of reference.. that's why I seclude myself, I hate the idea of finding someone that I really care for and the leaving me because I'm not man enough...

>>17895004
Been on both ends of that particular activity. Figured out that I only really enjoyed it after we'd both freshly showered, and had a while to get deep into foreplay first. But your milage may vary.

>>17895024
Well, you've given us a lot of information to sift through, which is good. It means you've already been doing a lot of introspection.

Are you circumcised or not?
Do you masturbait?
Did you use condoms?

Those questions all can help determine if your problem is caused by insufficient tolerance, or if it's something else.

You said you performed lots of oral and other forms of foreplay, Did those activities make you more sensitive? If so, then engaging in shorter foreplay might actually benefit you in terms of stamina.
If it's been 8 years of celibacy, then you have very little to go on in terms of how your body might currently react. Without that baseline it's hard to come up with too many good suggestions.

But if push comes to shove, you might specifically want to search out women who prefer foreplay to penetrative sex.

ANd speaking to any lingering doubts about your self-worth: Your ex was a giant, immature cunt, and you don't need to dwell on her petty actions. If she had been a considerate person, she'd have tried to find more common ground, instead of gossiping about something that was more of a failing of character on her part than your physical mishaps.

Think of sex as a dance where everyone is trying to make everyone else happy. You want to help her come. She wants you to come. But the -point- isn't about cumming. The point is to enjoy the experience to it's fullest.

>>17894957
I should start thinking about it like that. I'm afraid of it being a critique instead of assistance, but that's my issue I need to get over. Thanks anon

>>17894927
I like the level of kink we have, it's more just me being direct. Thanks

>>17894925
Man if that isn't a can of worms to unpack. But you're right though, thank you

>>17894683
Is it bad that I have fantasies about my gf's mom?
She's not even attractive, but I keep having these fantasies of my gf walking in on us fucking. Is something wrong with me?

>>17894823
I am around 5.5", in certain positions or if I thrust too hard, it actually hurts my partner. My ex girlfriend I could fuck as hard and fast as I could and it would not hurt her at all - every vagina is different just as every penis is also.

>>17894950
Masturbate a lot, practice bringing yourself to the point of cumming and then not cumming. I also found I lasted longer during sex/bjs when i was cumming daily around 2-4 times from wanking

>>17894987
Energy, showing that you actually want to fuck, showing that your enjoying yourself. If that is too vague: take control every now and again, make noise, be proactive, help yourself orgasm, touch yourself during sex.

Ultimately your question should be specific to your partner, get them to tell you what they want from sex if you communicate properly. It's

>>17894880
Remember that you're not supposed to go ass to pussy even if it's just your mouth. There's bacteria around the colon that can cause nasty vaginal infections. If she wants to take the risk then fine, life is full of risks, but have the common courtesy to at least suggest it. An anti-bacterial mouth wash is enough. This is regardless of whether you actually go inside or not, not like germs neatly stay in place.

Also, farts happen. Shit happens (especially if you're into spontaneous stuff). If you regularly dive between someone's ass for prolonged time you WILL smell shit sooner or later. Discreetly move to another act or suggest to head off to the shower. Don't act like your soul was shattered because there were traces of shit near her literal shithole.

Think that's it. Enjoy.

>>17895859
I don't think there's much wrong with you, just that you have a kink for the taboo factor. As long as you know not to act on it... and obviously never run your mouth as this is the kind of info that wrecks relationships.

Whats the deal with being circumcised, then? Thought it was for medical + religious reasons.

>>17895921
Not sure if you meant to respond to a specific post, but circumcision is traditionally done on religious grounds as a way to physically set your (male) children apart.
From there on it evolved into a cultural thing. For me as a European it's odd to hear the occasional American comment about uncircumcised dicks looking funny. There's also the general prejudice that they are less clean (only if you don't wash regularly), and I've even heard "I want my son to look like me" or "other kids will laugh at him in the locker room" as a reason to get the child circumcised.

It is possible to perform circumcision for medical reasons as well but this is much rarer.

>>17894987
When she cums.

Heard is was for not getting shit stuck in your dick, which would cause infections.

Why do guys look at porn?

>>17895948
To make it easier to cum, it's just transitioned through history, men used to imagine women, then went to reading, then to porn mags, then to video porn

>>17895948
I'm lonely.

This might be a really stupid question, but what's the point of partner sex when you can just masturbate?

I've never enjoyed sex with another person no matter what they've done, if anything they just get in the way

Fantasy and masturbation is way better than actually enacting the fantasies in real life

Are girls meant to enjoy sex? Sex is just for guys and porn lied to me, right?

>>17896004
Nah, sex isn't just for guys, although some girls take more effort than others to get in the zone or get to climax. First of all, have you ever had sex with someone you both felt very attracted to and had feelings for? If not, it is much too early to despair.

Either way, no misunderstandings, I fucking love masturbating. I can edge for hours on end on a lazy Sunday and can make myself have orgasms that last up to half a minute, or have five in a row if I feel like it. I still prefer sex over anything else. I have never felt so great in my life as when I was lying in the arms of my lover.

Obviously there's different factors to account for. Not everyone likes sex equally, that's just a fact of life. Not even everyone likes food or music equally. Then there's personal sensitivity - not everyone can have orgasms of the same intensity. (But then again, you have an idea of that already.)
But the biggest misconception people tend to have is that sex is -inherently- amazing. That just because dick in pussy blows your mind. This is hardly true for anyone. You can virtually always please yourself more accurately than someone else can, spend more time on just your favorite stuff and so on. (Although there's perks to sex like more variety in the sensations, and most people like smelling, tasting, feeling etc the body of someone they find attractive for its own sake.)

Post too long.

>>17896017
None of the guys I've liked have ever liked me back, so I don't think sex with someone I have feelings for is something I can ever really accomplish.

I'm really jealous.

Oh well.

Thanks for the reply

>>17896017
Also how on earth do you edge for hours? I can stop and start a few times but if I do it too often either I'll orgasm as soon as I touch myself again or leave it for too long and lose all the energy. Either way I still have a mediocre weak orgasm, maybe slightly stronger than if I hadn't edged but that's all.

>>17896017
The big factor is the psychology. Firstly sex is a combination of great emotions (acceptance, being desired, having someone expressly acknowledge you as a sexual being, laughing and having fun together, intimacy and bonding) and scary emotions (fear of rejection, insecurity over looks or stuff your body does, most people at least sometimes experience a mixture of arousal and being put off). This makes it really intense all around, more than if it were simply about good happy stuff. You are exposing a part of yourself and opening yourself up to being hurt in a vulnerable situation that you avoid in almost all of everyday life. That puts a lot at stake which makes the experience more exhilarating. Obviously for this the bond also matters - over time you become so comfortable with each other that these aspects can fade, or they can not be present because you don't care about the person you fuck and what they think of you.

Secondly there is the combination of physical and emotional intimacy that feed and enhance each other. Having good sex is the closest you can get to acting out feelings of attraction to someone else. Perhaps you know that vibrant, thrilling feeling when you flirt with a stranger or dance with someone attractive. Like there's tension and you're wrapped up in playing with each other. Good sex is like that only instead of a flicker it's all there is, all the mundane stuff vanishes.

Maybe I did a bad job describing it but I hope this gives you an idea. Having said that this is coming from someone who loves sex a lot and happened to have great experiences. Not everyone will enjoy sex this much and there's nothing wrong with that. I was just trying to shed a light on where the hype is coming from.

If you have not been with someone you cared about and sincerely really liked, though, you can't really know what you've missed out on so far. It really makes all the difference. Sex is still a social act between people.

>>17896022
That stuff happens all the time, I don't mean to sound dismissive because it is thoroughly discouraging and obviously really fucking sucks, but be careful that you don't just adapt it as a sign for how your future will turn out. Everyone has experienced rejection. One of my best friends is the most sought after girl I ever met in real life and she did not wind up with most of the guys she liked.

And if it helps a bit, I haven't had sex in two and a half years by now (also because I am not ready to settle for less and do not catch feelings easily at all, sadly). But I absolutely feel lucky in this respect.

My trick is to keep a book nearby. That way you don't have to spend lots of time but you still get more distracted and out of the moment than if you just do nothing but catch your breath. I read about two pages then get back at it. Basically make sure you are mentally out of it for a few minutes as well, not just physically.

>>17896028
And also still wanted to add that on top of looking for the right partner, it is also a matter of discovering what you like yourself. I find that women are not really stimulated as much as guys to learn about their turn ons (possibly because our sex drive is less pressing? not sure) and oftentimes take longer to feel comfortable with their own kinks/preferences whether those are odd or not. I am talking about the full landscape here: what you need to set the mood, how you want to be touched, how you want to view yourself during sex (filthy library girl who looks so innocent? classic femme fatale who no man can resist? pure girl who is helplessly being taken advantage of by the stronger man? a sexual nurse who looks after her partner and keeps his balls drained 24/7?), how you want to be spoken to and approached, what acts you enjoy physically and psychologically, whether you like toys or roleplay or specific settings, what position is most likely to get you off on penetration, and so on and so on.

>>17895948
Men are different than women. Women enjoy a more emotional bond to sex than women.

Men have a constant need to cum all the time. You either come to terms with that, or live your life feeling inadequate as a woman. Men are dirty perverts.

>>17896004
When you meet someone you love sex is great. Sharing your body with someone you love is incredible, as opposed to just "fucking". There is more to sex than just sticking a penis inside of a vagina.

I knew the girl I was going to marry the way I had sex with her. It was more than just FUCKING her. We actually made love, it's different than jus

>>17896028
>Perhaps you know that vibrant, thrilling feeling when you flirt with a stranger or dance with someone attractive.

I only know the sad achy feeling of observing someone I love from a distance and knowing I can't touch them.

>>17896046
I don't have erogenous zones and I don't enjoy penetration at all, I'm just numb except for my clit, sadly. I wish my body was more sensitive.

I know I prefer submissive fantasies though.

I have a bigger than avg wee wee 7" how can I let the local sluts know?

>>17896058
Literally numb or relatively speaking? Because that can also be hard to judge, I mean I get nothing out of groping myself but I do sure like it when someone else does. And I don't think that would work the same if a guy I didn't really like tried it.

But if that's true that is very unfortunate but not something you can do much about. No choice but to learn how to make the most out of the experience, eg by focusing more on roleplay with submissive stuff where you can act out your fantasies.

>>17896067
Go clubbing in really tight pants with a (half) chubby.

>>17896067
I don't think that's big enough for them to sleep with you solely on that.

>>17896077
Why not?

>>17896082
It's just not that big, and your dick is not everything. Do you look good?

>>17896085
Yes

>>17896085
It's not very huge but I heard the extra 2" does a lot right?

Why is my cum yellow-ish?

>>17896077
>>17896085
7" is big. Internet stats aren't real. It's not freakishly big but very likely bigger than a given girl has seen in real life.

>>17896076
How do I keep the chub while clubbing?

>>17896097
It's all about girth, really.

>>17896105
What is a good girth size?

>>17896108
I don't know about exact numbers, but girthy enough to make her feel stuffed full.

>>17896074
Acting out my fantasies isn't as good as imagining them when I'm alone :(

Maybe I should just kill myself and hope I reincarnate as someone with a body that's not broken.

>>17896104
Dancing with/grinding on girls (this mostly depends on whether you can take a rejection well enough to play the numbers game), porn on your phone, paying consciously attention to the best looking girls etc. Drugs, if you're into that.

It's not about sporting one literally the entire night, it is just the only more or less discreet way you can show it off. And girls talk.

>>17896112
I don't really understand how big that is but ok.

>>17896116
Depends on the girl.

>>17896098

Fat rich diet probably. I don't live in USA so everytime I go there I go crazy on junk food. And every time it made my cum yellow like pus.

Some meds can change its color too.

>>17895948

Men are more visual so it's mostly the stimulus. Either that or to fantasize about things you can't have for some reason.

>>17896004

I skipped all other replies to this so forgive me if I'm repeating something

Nobody will ever know your body like yourself. I'm a guy and on occasion masturbation will feel better than a lazy sex session with my gf.

Unless you teach others what to do to you, it's unlikely that sex will ever beat masturbation, specially because you're already biased about it thinking like that.

You can also just do your own thing while you have sex. I find it extremely hot. Dominant positions where you can set the pace and rub your clit by hand or humping can also help. And if all else fails, you can always just masturbate with a dick in you. It'll probably feel better than solo if the fucking is well paced to your mood.

Also, have you tried lesbian sex? From what I've seen women are much more clit centric during sex than men, for obvious reasons.

Are guys able to have sex with women they are not attracted to e.g morbidly obese women, and if so why? Just because the attractive parts are still there?

>>17896138
I don't eat fast food, my diet is pretty healthy overall.

>>17896138
>Men are more visual
This is bullshit, the sounds of sex are just as exciting.

>>17895994
weird, porn itself makes me feel lonely and sad... more than the usual feeling, I mean

>>17896147
The only things that I ever noticed to have an effect on it are food and medication. I'd say an inflamation/infection somewhere along the way could make it more yellowish, as I had DSTs that gave me yellowish runnings, but if you don't have any other symptoms and it's only the cum, I'm out of clues

>>17896148
>Implying I disregarded sounds as stimulus as well

Unless you're blind or retarded I doubt you only listen to your porn, so just stfu

>>17896154
Yeah, if I use it too much it does to me as well so I limit it to once or twice a week. It's like watching people having sex makes you feel self-conscious that you're loser that is not getting any.

>>17896138
Yeah but if I'm just going to be rubbing my clit during sex why have sex at all? I can do it by myself

I don't really get anything out of penetration, my vagina doesn't have any feeling

>>17894823
Just found out couple of months ago my girls ex is bigger than me, how do I find him and eradicate him from this god forsaken earth?

>>17896157
I don't just listen to porn, but have you ever been close to a room where people were having sex, like in a hotel? Hot as fuck.

>>17896164
how much bigger?

>>17896159
Like I said, having a dick in you could be extra stimulus to it. My gf loves a vibrator on her clit best when I have my dick in there, just sitting still doing nothing. It gives her pussy something to twitch on.

Have you tried finding your G-spot? I had an ex who also didn't care much for penetration but her G-spot was non existant. My current gf and other girls I've been with have it very proeminent, like the size of a nut. If your's is not like that, maybe it explains the lack of pleasure from penetration.

Sex is mostly a skin/touch thing, bonding with another human being (regardless of emotion), and things like that. Raw pleasure obviously play a big part in it but it's not the single thing to it.

And like I said, if man have not pleased you well, maybe be passive for a lesbian and see how she does it to you. You don't have to please her back by directly touching her pussy if you're grossed by it initially. Idk, just a tought.

>>17896168
One inch she said..

>>17896170
Not her just chiming in, but while the g-spot might play a part its existence and attributes etc are still highly controversial.
What's less controversial is that the clitoris is kind of like the tip of the iceberg and at least a significant amount of the pleasure from penetration comes from the cluster of nerves on the inside being stimulated during sex. (Often in combination with etc the groin area rubbing up against her clit.) For some women the distance between the clitoris and actual vagina appears to be too big to get significant fun out of penetration. That and the size of the clitoris also matters (the bigger the better for pleasure).

>>17896168
She's a dick for telling you that. More of a dick then yours and her ex's toghether. She probably only told you because you kept insisting I imagine, because we are stupid like that.

Regardless, it doesn't have much impact anyway. Just try to forget about it. As long as you work well with your mouth and ten fingers, you can more than compensate for that lackig inch.

>>17896170
Dicks give me no stimulus

Yeah I can't find a g-spot either, so I guess that's why I don't feel anything from having a dick inside me

Do you mean the g spot was a raised ball the size of a nut?

If a guy can't please me with their hands and mouth, how could a girl.

I guess I'm just not cut out for sex.

>>17896164
Buy a cheap cock pump, with a medical style pump. And some lube for her. Solved.

>>17896184
I wholy agree with you. Not about it's existance though, it definitly does exist. But the properties are blown way out of proportions. It's like gay guys talk about the prostate but some straight guys try to stimulate it and it's like "meh, it's cool but not that much"

The clit position is very important too. My ex not only didn't have a proeminent g spot, but her clit was also way closer to the vagina then my current gf, which has it way higher, almost where a dick should be.

And there's also the clit structure like you said. It's like a wishbone around the vagina.

Pussy come in much more configurations than dicks, that's probably why women have their preferences all over the place compared to each other.

>>17896227
The size not so much, it's not as big as a nut. It's mostly the shape.

It's very hard to miss if you have a proeminent one. I've poked around my ex like a gyno and couldn't find it anywhere, dismissed it completly as a myth. Then came my current gf and it was surprizingly big. Like, I was used to vaginas being perfectly round, "O" shaped holes. Hers haves a big lump on the top of that "O", "ruining" the round shape. I'd say it's 1.5~2 inches long and at least 1/2" high when she's aroused. I can definitly fit my finger between it and the vagina side wall.

It's not exclusive to her too, we've been with another girl whose G-spot was shorter, larger and flater. It just comes in all diferent shapes and sizes. I'm not a gyno to say it's possible that a woman can be completly absent of one, but probably you can have it very tiny and not very sensitive.

The attributes are blown way out of proportions too. It's not a "push to cum" buttom at all, and my gf herself doesn't care much for it more than as a complement to clit stimulation. Even for her and that other girl, I'd say sensibility there was somewhere between nipples and clit, a bit closer to the second.

So don't be upset if you can't find yours or it's not very sensitive. It's not a feature all girls have, and not something that will necessarily bring you pleasure in penetration. Humping the clit with the pubic bone seems much more effective to me, although the g spot stimulus sure is a good complement

I suggested trying sex with women because, well, even though I hold myself at a very high standard as a clit stimulator (*tips fedora*), I never had one myself to know what it feels like. Women were born with theirs and sure had way more practice around it than any man can have. On average, I'd say women are more likely to be better partners for clit-centric women than men, who are mostly all about penetration. You can see something similar about bi guys saying how men give way better head than most girls

>>17894823
Yes, of course it does. Do you think sticking a finger in there feels the same as sticking a baseball bat? Shape and size make a difference, you'd have to be retarded not to realize it. Is this the be-all-end-all of sex? Of course not, only a fool would believe that but pretending it's completely irrelevant is stupid too.

>>17894825
>insecure virgins
lol the irony

>>17896354
lol the illiteracy

I just said exactly the same thing you did, except I wasn't trying to be ~edgy~ like you

"the irony", indeed...

I share a room with my brother and i masturbate daily. I lost all of my dick sensitivity thanks to the death grip and wanting to come fast because i didn't want to get caught.
Not sexually active at the moment but i dont know what to do about my dick.
Im afraid about cumming too fast or not feeling shit when i eventually have sex.
What can i do?

>>17896363
I said yes.
You said no, unless it's really small.
So by your words a 5" penis would feel the same as a 8" penis. I don't care what you meant, this is what you said, you retard.

>>17896144
Tried to hook up with someone I wasn't overly physically attracted to, in the end I couldnt go through with it, felt like I was lying to myself and just wasn't keen at all

>>17896373

I don't think you even have a dick by your opinion... obviously different sizes and shapes will feel different, that goes without saying to anyone who's not an authist like you.

Dick owners get concerned about it from the "is mine enough" aspect. Bigger is not always better, since a 8" will definitly poke and annoy the average girl who isn't into pain or doesn't have a pussy deep and wide as a pringles can.

So as long as you're packing a normal schlong, you're good.

>>17896331
How come my nipples aren't sensitive either?

WHY ARE MOST OF THESE QUESTIONS SO BAD?

>>17896144
I think most guys aren't. I certainly I am not.

>>17895948
Because I want to see hot hoes.

>>17895859
I'd also want to have a threesome with daughter and mom.

>>17894987
Affection, blowjobs, footjobs, tits, tight holes.

>>17896402
It's not an opinion, it's a fact. You said something that's simply untrue. He asked if dick size MATTERS, not if bigger is always better or if average size is enough etc. You said it doesn't, therefore you gave an untrue answer.

>I don't think you even have a dick by your opinion.
If that was true then my opinion on this subject should count for more, since I'd be the one who actually could know how a dick might feel and how size might matter.
I'm not though. I'd just rather give a factual answer than try to manipulate the truth to the point where it becomes a lie in order to sidestep someones presumed insecurities.

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>>17894887
I jerk off excessively. My dick goes numb yet I still continue, to the point that my balls have changed my color to red, while dick stays brown yet it is definitely darker than the whole skin.

Is my penis going to die?

>>17896414

It's not something that's mandatory too. The more tought you give to being "normal", the less you'll be able enjoy yourself when having sex. It can range from anything between blood flow to nerve ending amount and simple preference.

If you don't care much for it, just let the guy have his fun and don't worry about enjoying it. But if you outright dislike it or would rather be stimulated somewhere else, just take his hand wherever you prefer it (probably to your clit). It's hot!

Also, don't worry if the guy isn't great giving you a "hand job", the average guy doesn't know his way around a clit. It's not you, it's them. You either teach them your way, or send them on theirs and roll the dice again with someone else

>>17894987
I like girls who like cum.

Any tips on going down on a girl? I really enjoy this and it seems a lot of girls appreciate it very much too, so I would like to know your opinions on what's good and what's not.

>>17894823
it matters to some, but most women won't care as long as they like/love the guy that's attached to the dick

>>17896465
I was going to ask the same question but I'm a virgin lmao

>>17896365
Get a fleshlight, you cannot physically jerk harder than the sensation it offers and it's much closer to a real pussy than your hand that grips you exactly how you want it. Not talking out of my ass, I've heard lots of good stuff about this in relation to deathgrip.

>>17896474
Well, you're not so alone. By saying "I really enjoy this" I basically meant "I really enjoy the idea of it". Just thought it would sound like a better question.

>>17896465
>>17896465
>expose clit with fingers
>suck on clit like it's a mini dick/pacifier
>lick and twirl your tongue on it as it is exposed
>insert one or maybe two fingers to poke the g spot
>use other hands around her body
>???
>profit

Each girl will obviously have her preferences on it, but it's definitly a good start to most of them and very likely to make them cum buckets.

>>17896465
There's lots of great guides online for specific tips and tricks that are much more elaborate than a simple post. Also this is really a girl to girl thing, eg some girls think everything but clit focused stuff is boring, other girls find the clitoris too sensitive to be directly touched/licked at all.

Personally I love;
>not feeling alone up there - when my partner holds my hand, strokes my body with one hand or keeps one on my stomach, looks up for a sly grin or just some eye contact... hiding under the covers is a no go for prolonged time (also you will smother from the heat)
>keep things switched up - alternate slow with fast, rough with gentle, sloppy with particular, pay attention to different parts of the pussy... even the sensation she loves the most will grow stale if you keep at it
>similarly: if you do prolonged sessions, switch positions or switch to 69 at some point to keep some momentum, many girls also become self-conscious being passive on the receiving end if it takes them a long time to come, flipping stuff around helps with that
>personally I love sloppy making out afterwards when I can taste myself in his mouth... but I think for every girl it's at least a given that you should not be afraid to dive in there, be discreet about discharge, you should never comment on her specific lay out while down there unless it's an outright compliment (even if you really need to, eg she smells, bring it up outside of sex for sure)
>if you want to make sure something feels good or doesn't hurt, asking is no problem at all but make sure to phrase it in a way that's as sexy as possible (eg "tell me how it feels" instead of "this doing anything for you?", "is it okay if I'm rougher like this?" instead of "does this hurt?")
>and for a really concrete example: I melt when a guy firmly grabs my ass with two hands, does these tiny little nitpick licks all around the clitoris and labia, and then just dives in with long lavish strokes of his tongue... Heaven

>>17896501
>don't forget your fingers and don't think of them as mini-dicks: use them to finger her clit, spread the lips, take a trip south or try to find her g-spot... fingerfucking has its place but it's not the most exciting purely physically
>DO NOT RAMP SHIT UP WHEN SHE'S ABOUT TO COME... apparently what you were doing was great so keep doing that, yeah maybe marginally faster if you can't keep from doing anything but honestly sticking to what got her so close is the most likely to get her over the edge

>>17894880
shower a/o enema prior, unless you're into tasting shit. even then, expect a shit-flavor
>>17894883
eye sight is a myth. as for growth, if you're an excessive death-gripper, you might damage your blood vessels which could lead to erections that aren't as full as they could be and possibly painful
>>17894920
ask you shall receive
>>17894987
participation/enthusiasm, and some knowledge about what you need to get off. getting with a girl that has deadfish-syndrome really kills the mood.
>>17895921
originally started as a Judea-Christian thing to mark a covenant with God, probably also help keep your dick clean in the ages where a good bath was an annual affair. It gained popularity in the US as a means to keep a boy from masturbating (no, seriously, look it up) and continued in some sort of "I want my son to look like I do" tradition. People have started to realize there's not a real reason to do a lot of the circumcisions any more, and it's beginning to lose popularity
>>17895948
because I don't have an infinite number of big-booty freaks on call

>>17896493
I heard that sucking her labia minora felt good as well, confirm?

>>17896557
It might, but it's like licking your dick between the balls and the head: might feel good, but it's something to do once in a while for variety. Don't focus on it.

>>17896004
sex is great when you know what you need to cum and you have a partner that you love and has experience
>>17896067
short shorts
>>17896098
diet
>>17896104
viagra
>>17896144
tried hooking up with a girl i didn't find attractive, ended up going soft after initial penetration
>>17896365
stop masturbating so hard so often
>>17896465
https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/a-lesbos-guide-to-eating-vagina
>>17896557
it's kind of a variety thing. even if your girl requires a lot of clit stimulation to cum, if you spend 100% of your time on the clit it's going to get boring and potentially painful

>>17895948
Because I'm fucking miserable. Because I've been single far too long.

Those were my reasons. Before I stopped watching. Still single, still pretty miserable though. I'm greatful for everything I have, but it is extremely rare that I acquire what I truly need. Companionship. So men find themselves in this cycle of solitude for years simply wishing to be accompanied, not having that fulfilled, so they turn to porn because it's the closest they will feel (probably in a long time) to being happy.. only to realize how shitty it made them feel before, again.. years go by.. with every passing year, you die a little.. lose hope. Even if you get positive feedback, it fulfills nothing if you don't find love.

>>17894825
Thin 4 inch. Thank god i gave up long ago, i couldnt stand her sad face and just left.

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>>17894987
Be skinny with pointy hip bones

>>17895948
It's basic hygeine to cum once daily imo. Otherwise I start feinding and eye fucking every girl I see. After three days of no cumming it's insane, I don't even care if they notice me looking at that point.

>>17896585
tried, i can last like a month without masturbating then i become even more bisexual and start masturbating to everything except depraved and tranny shit
probably gonna stop masturbating when i begin classes again because i wont have time.

>>17896644
Get the damn fleshlight. I'm serious. Re-teach yourself.

>>17896615
Sorry bro, but you literally pulled the short stick in this one.

I'm not saying that just to make you feel good, but I think it still classifies as borderline average. Anatomically you're technically able to please a woman, even though you're not making anyone wet with how it looks (I don't either).

Gotta settle for damage control and work around it: git gud at fingering, oral and making out as a whole, and you'll make her cum enough to be tight for you.

Also, something I read once that mads me feel much more confident:
>what's your favorite type of dick?
>(girl) the hard one

Some girls will settle for it if you're always rock hard. You can still compensate for it bro, I know cus I do, don't lose hope

any suggestion for a guy on SNRI (Effexor XR 300mg) that literally cannot come from sex? The only way I can get off is by watching porn and masturbating and regular sex doesn't arouse me that much. My gf really wants me to finish inside her badly though. What do?

>>17896689
Change meds. That's the only healthy option. I was on lexapro and it sucked, changed to pristiq and got way better, now I complement with donaren and it's pretty much perfect

>>17896676
I'm really going to remember that quote, thanks, it rings quite true.

Lurking here, I feel that men often kind of confuse the whole pissing contest among men about who has the biggest peestick with what women find attractive. Sure a microdick is actually really fucking shit luck but average is average for a reason. Comfortable to suck off, plenty of action peneteration-wise for the far majority of women. Vaginas differ in size like most body parts and acting like they can all accommodate a porn dick just because they all elongate/loosen when aroused is entirely missing the point.

And on top of that, think of it like this. Do you want a tight girlfriend over a looser one? Fuck yeah. But in real life, it doesn't stop there. Maybe the "loose" one gets real fucking wet and smells/tastes amazing, while the other pussy doesn't smell pleasant, looks weird to you. Do they both shave or are fuzzy according to your preferences? Are they open minded with positions? Compatible in kinks? Do your sex drives match? Is she loving, spirited and respectful in bed? How's her body? And her nerve to show it off to you? How's her conversation? Is she loyal? Funny? Charming?

All these things influence how much you enjoy pounding that pussy, right?

>>17896465
Huffing a little against it, teasing other parts (touching inner thighs, etc), letting out little grunts and hums - something very underappreciated but most girls love.

This tip in general for guys having sex with girls (guys with guys usually already have more consciousness about it):

Moan.

Don't force yourself to or it'll be a huge turnoff, but if you notice in straight porn, men never moan. Nothing. You don't need to scream your lungs out, just don't hold yourself back. Let it out. You'll be surprised how fast girls drop panties at hearing grunts and huffs and all that shit.

>>17896713
>Huffing a little against it
I give up at this step

Help, how do I last less time?

It takes me ages to come in my gf though we have good sex

Ive already stopped masturbating and cut out porn altogether.

>>17896716
Nigga I'm not telling you to literally blow on it and give her an air embolism or something I'm just saying to exhale larger "hungrier" hotter breaths, nothing too over the top. Breath play.

>>17896705
Exactly bro. Dick size is mostly a male thing, and a fetish to some girls. We too have our preferences about pussies, but when we go in, anything hardly matters beyond wetness and being tight just enough. Even if it's not perfect, like you said, there's so much beyond that that, although it plays a big part, it's compensated by many other things.

I'm not huge and I'm a grower, so it gets very small flacid. I just avoid letting girls seeing it that way freely. I don't really care if they do, but I try to cover or divert her attention from it as much as possible. So just do that if you feel so awkward about it. If the sight of it won't make them wet, they'll hardly be able to measure it just by feeling with hand/mouth/pussy/ass

Which reminds me you have a great excuse for doing anal to every single girl you come accross kek. Let them say something if they want and reply with "well, it is small, so you don't have an excuse for not taking it in the ass right?"

>>17896729
>Breath play
Breath play is not what you think it is.

>>17896713

Valuable tip, even just a "hmmm" will make a slight pleasurable vibration down there. Me and my gf go crazy when we moan on each others parts, specially doing 69

>>17896734
I'm actually not him and not a man. Don't worry about your flaccid dick, it's actually really cool how much it changes shape. Now I'm sad again that I lost the USB stick with my gifs of small dicks growing in slow motion.

Also I just find those kind of moments where you're not necessarily in your "sexy" look kind of humanizing and bonding. I mean like period stuff is that erotic (to most men), or having a foodbaby after dinner or something. Feels good not having to be embarrassed about stuff you wouldn't like people you trusted less to see. I mean sex itself can get like that often enough if you do it well.

>>17896743
Lol sry! It makes your opinion much more valuable though!