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Should I go out with my friends?
I honestly have no desire to. I'm tired, I can't be arsed to get dressed and make myself pretty and all. I already told them I would but I can find an easy excuse because I'm working tomorrow early.
Let me be honest for a little, I don't always feel good when out with them. I don't feel, never felt I belonged to the group, I was always just another voice in there, nobody really important, nobody bothered to ever reach out to me or get to be my friend, true friend I mean. My best friend of many years is core to this group, in a relationship with another person of this group, they're both pretty much around whom this group revolves around and I feel like I'm only in because of her, because we are best friends since we were kids now.
The only reason I'd go out with them today is because of Christmas and all, I try to find happiness whenever I can, but damn if I'm not. I'm feeling very down today and I'd just waste my energy going out today.
I don't know what to do, I've felt so depressive this Christmas despite being with my loving family and having had a very nice and warm Christmas overall.
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>>17893286
I never really want to go out when I'm feeling down. But when I do end up hanging out with friends it makes me feel much better.
But since you're saying
>I don't always feel good when out with them
it may not be that easy.
Can you go out with them, and just go back home if you don't like it? Since you work tomorrow you can leave early without being rude. And if you have fun you can just stay with them.
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I feel like going out is healthy that's the only reason I do it I take no pleasure in others
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>>17893302
>Can you go out with them, and just go back home if you don't like it? Since you work tomorrow you can leave early without being rude. And if you have fun you can just stay with them.
Well it already is a bit late as it is (10pm). The plan was to meet at 6-7, then it got delayed and delayed and delayed some more and the more it's delayed, the less chances I can just go and come back home earlier. It's not like I can go, stay for 15 minutes and come back home, which is what's going to happen if this shit gets delayed more.
Whatever, shouldn't have made this thread. I'm just looking for excuses when I already know I won't go anywhere anyway. I was never a friend of theirs and I feel like the group is slowly breaking anyway.
Thanks for taking the time to reply anon.
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>>17893321
>I was never a friend of theirs and I feel like the group is slowly breaking anyway.
dang.
you know, a lot of people feel that way, that their friends maybe don't really like them, that they're not part of the group etc.
obviously i don't know your situation, but maybe it's not as bad as you may think.
take care anon
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>>17893332
Well I'm the only one of the group that nobody ever actively calls or tries to reach out to. I was also the ONLY one that didn't get invited at more than a few events. I should just get the hint and move on with whatever's left of my life.
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>>17893360
Do you go when you are invited? I know if someone regularly doesn't come when I invite them to something, I will just do it less and less, and eventually stop...
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>>17893364
I go when I'm invited. Today is the only day I haven't and I'm distressed I'm so willing to break out of the group.
But then again, if people don't make an effort to reach out to you, when people don't care about you and when you're not considered a friend, you gotta just take the hint, no? So I'm taking the hint and just disappear out of their lives. Not to say I'm only ever invited by my best friend, not the others.
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