I realized in most cases of me having to get over an ex, deal

>>17892982
Do you watch a lot of porn

The general zeitgeist of relationships of younger people is very sexualized so I wouldn't say you're different but it's also not the best if you're wishing for a long term meaningful relationship

>>17893068
>>17893068
>Do you watch a lot of porn

Yes but I've been cutting back recently

I understand that sexual urges are natural. I'm not upset with myself for that. But the thing I'm concerned about is to the extent i let them get to my head

I'm getting over an ex right now and I can't stop thinking about them sexually either. I go jerk off to their pics then feel like complete shit right after. And thinking about them fcking someone else turns me on then makes me completely fucking hate myself right after.

>>17893344
but for me it can sometimes happen with any woman I'm every woman I'm close with. It makes even having friendships with women an emotional chore

>>17893344
How tf does that turn you on?

>>17893355
He a cuck I guess

so is the fact I'm not getting any advice a sign that this is a stupid problem?

Bumping because this is mental torrrrrture

>>17892982
Same boat. Romantically I'm willing to let go so he could be happy with someone new. On the other hand, I miss choking on his perfect dick. Running my fingers through his hair, everything physical. His smell. Aagh

>>17893759
Tfw whenever I talk about this I only get people with similar experiences.

Is this something I'm never gonna find the solution to

This is fucked. What's fucking wrong with me.

Fucking bump