Alright it's time to break it down /adv/

>>17890421
usually the male, could go both ways though
if it's femdom and the man is restrained, of course the female is dominant in that case, for example

>>17890421
The male, it's all about his pleasure. Some women really enjoy the act of submission and are happy to do it, and if the male is letting her go at he down pace, she might enjoy the feeling of control over his pleasure. But it's still a submissive act by design, especially if she lets him take control and fuck her mouth

>>17890424
this.
Usually when it is considered as an act of teasing then the woman seems to be in control.

This can go either way.
The suckee can be completely in control of the other's pleasure.
As a man i can assure you there have been times Ive been begging, "don't stop", "please finish" and "I'll do anything if you do that again"
There were also girls that enjoy the feeling of being used. Grabbed by the hair and thrust into to completion.
People play off each other, and hopefully both sides get what they want.

>>17890421
Suck his cock and find out.