Long Distance

also, watching anime isn't helping either

Aah, that sucks man.

I'm currently in long distance too, i can see her every two months, and that sucks, so i can't imagine how you must feel.

>>17888396
I hope you succeed in your relationship anon.
Don't let her go

>>17888396
Me too, it have been 4 months now, might see her again in February, then I'll have to wait for summer.
You'll get used to it OP, I know you feel lonely af, but use it as a fuel to succeed in what you are doing. Try to meet people, do interesting things. I know you'll be "wish she were here with me" but it will fade in a few months, eventually.
Best of luck OP.

>>17888425
Haha dude, mine is pretty complicated
Everything was fine until last time I saw her (which was great), but since then i haven't had any news from her. No text, nothing. It's been almost two months !

Girl loves me, I'm really confident about that, but she's got her own problems, and she's dealing really badly with communication. And her studies are pretty much breaking her.

Going back in town in two days, no idea what's gonna happen. Hope everything's fine.

>>17888446
Good luck to that anon.

>>17888444
People used to tell me that ldr's never work out.
I am now getting a feel of it.

>>17888521
Well, we'll see.
I'm trying not to worry too much, because with her it's the same everytime she takes some time to respond (so far the longest was 2 weeks), i worry a lot, get paranoid, and in the end it turns out everything was fine between us, she was just too overwhelmed by everything and couldn't talk to me, and she aIways feels guilty as fuck for not being able to talk to me.

l'll definitely talk to her about it when i see her, so far i've been accepting it because i know that's how she is and she can't help it, but 2 months without news was a lot, we'll sort it out eventually.

Sorry if i'm using your thread to vent a little, i guess i'm pretty worried about this after all...!
I don't think "ldr's never work out", i think it's more that most people can't really handle it.
Obviously I'm talking about ldr's where you can see your SO at a minimum, in your case OP, 3 years without seeing her is way too complicated to work out, i think.


The fact that life can keep two people in love from being together is one of the things i hate the most about life.
Be strong, anon

>>17888597
mi casa su casa
my thread is your thread anon.
I know what you feel. Behind this wall we can show ourselves as a person strong as shit but deep down inside we need someone.
Keeps us vulnerable.

Good luck to you. Keep us updated how it goes.

>>17888644
Thank you anon.
I really don't think (and hope) that it's not a matter of feelings, she's been in love with me since 2012, we got back together in July (i know, i'm cumulating red flags, an ex + LDR, kek), and since then i'm being Perfect Boyfriend 101. She's got those eyes everytime she looks at me, man. I'm pretty sure she didn't just "lose all interest" in two months, especially since the last time we saw each other was fucking perfect.

I think she can't handle both the relationship and her hardcore studies right now, so she put the relationship aside for awhile, and now she feels guilty as fuck for doing it and doesn't know how to get back to me. Now I "just" gotta reassure her that everything's gonna be okay

Thing is i'd be ready to accept it if she actually plans to break up, but it's that silence that's killing me right now.

>>17888676
*I really think (and hope) that's it's not a matter of feelings
woops