Dating

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I'll save you fifty replies of LONDON and fifteen year old betas trying to give you advice

Pursue any hobby that has at least some amount of heterosexual men in it, then just find groups of gatherings to do it; there will be men there and by virtue of being a woman you will receive male attention

Don't pick something retarded like video games or furry porn though because you will nobody worth passing on their genes in those settings

>>17887828
This pretty much.

Also are you cute? if you're cute I'll date you.

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If you're at least a 5/10 just go to anywhere where people congregate and you're done.

What kind of alternate reality do you live in where woman have a hard time at dating?

>>17887823
literally anywhere ever.

>>17887828
>>17887828
Oh, video games! I forgot to mention those but they fall into the 'online' category, probably as a last resort unless there's any chance for a place to find someone 'on the field'.

>>17887830
I've been told I am... but my inability to relate to people and socialize properly may be off putting to most.

>>17887835
So I just go there- anywhere, sit and wait to be approached? Nobody does, at best they stare.

>>17887823
NEW LONDON
But seriously, what are you looking for in a relationship? I have a feeling you wouldn't mind trying online dating sites if you didn't think they were full of people like that so I'm assuming you don't mind about LDR.

If over the internet I would let it naturally develop with time when you find someone that you see yourself potentially being with.

Even in person still let it naturally develop. The library or game shops (not just video games but hobby shops or whatever they are called) and take interest and then ask around about the hobby.

Don't also develop friendship with orbiters if you're going to have more than two moons. TRUST ME.

>>17887823
>Don't know what to say about online dating sites, they seem filled with people just looking for hook ups and casual sex.

You WILL get a shit ton of creeps and guys looking for casual sex, but you'll also get that just about everyone else (maybe to a sliiiightly lesser extent, but it's still pretty prevalent).

That doesn't mean that ALL guys on there are like that though. I'm living proof.

I met my girlfriend on OKC. We've been together for two years and looking to move in together.

I started using online dating when I was about 24, met my gf at 26.

Most of my male friends who've done online dating have also found long term relationships from it too.

Last year, we went to one of my girlfriend's best friend's wedding. Her best friend also met her husband on OKC, just a couple years before we did.

As much as people shit talk online dating, that doesn't mean it never works.

>>17887852
Well then, you're lucky you're on 4chan then.
You'll find plenty of people that like you can't relate to people.

>>17887861

Online dating is horrible especially if you have low self-esteem. For men, you have to go through at least 1000 profiles and face infinitely more rejection just to meet a girl who will put up with you. Of course the same happens in real life but you're not exclusively being judged on your type of profile picture or bio.

The problem with online dating is either way too long DRs that you invest in and then it fails (well, a risk one consciously takes) or the thing usually with online personas is that they appear different from their real selves. Disillusionment is bound to happen to various degrees.

I'm akward as fuck too

Let's talk

[email protected]

lets spam http://audilatvija.eu

>>17887823
Meetup groups for weird interests you have. Websites that are dedicated to obscure hobbies.

I'm into finding missing people, and my friend hops trains(hobo). Whenever we gather with groups of people that share our interests, they are always 1)80% male 2)think we are foxy as all hell for sharing their same weird interest.

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>>17887823
OP there has been some good advice here. Hobbies/adult education are good areas to start. The latter is good as you may be forced to interact. Try a cooking class. God Speed OP.

please be my gf.
ill sacrifice everything for you.

>>17887852
>So I just go there- anywhere, sit and wait to be approached?
You need to actually talk to people. If I see some gal with a resting bitch face I sure as fuck won't approach her. But if I'm chatting someone up and we have good chemistry, I'll take the initiative. The key is to maximize the number of people you're actually talking to.

>>17887924
>>17887926
lol

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>>17888169
Well, approaching is not all that hard OP. Shall I give you the most dynamic pick up line ever?

>>17888183
I'm curious

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>>17888210
Well OP. This is what to do. Lets assume you are doing an adult education course. Lets say French. You see guy who you think, "yes, he doesn't look like a typical 4 chan autist". Walk over. Smile. Make eye contact and say " Hi/Hey/Hello..I'm OP..how are you". That's it. Now, dear dear OP, most people only think as far as this. The real key is have follow up lines, which relate to why you are where ever you are. For example: " i am really struggling with the passive verbs" or " So why are you learning French". Have a bunch of topics "up your sleeve". The real key, dearest OP, is listen to the answers. Actually properly listen. Google active listening and apply those techniques. Basically, reflect back a bit of what they say:" so your going to France...wow..what part do you want to go to?" Lucky Guy:" Well mainly Paris"> OP:" oh your so lucky, I so want to see the art galleries".

You will be fine OP. God Speed.

>>17887823
you don't because you are program to only want guys who are high on demand who are more likely to be cheaters and who are having sex with other girls. you have the options of getting very loyal guys but thirsty and desperate guys but you don't want them because they signal low status not desire by other women.

>>17888299
Enough with this shit. Take your bitterness elsewhere. Most 'loyal guys' that the people on here claim to be are actually creepy, unpleasant and misogynist, and send out vibes as such. That's why they don't get laid or get girlfriends. It's because their attitude stinks.

"Awkward" and "creepy" have been so bastardized by 14 year old girls and normalfags that they have lost their true meaning so if you can give a little more explanation it'll help narrow down some ideas.

When you say you're socially awkward what do you mean? full blown anxiety in groups and a minimal desire for socializing? Or do you just feel awkward but still basically have the typical social life of a 20 something?

>>17888329
>>17888329
What are you in about

You being a girl doesn't make your situation any different than if a man made this thread.

You both suffer from the same characteristics, both overly analytical and judgmental over wholly inconsequential things. If you're looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend all you have to do is just put yourself out there.

>>17887823
Ever considered you're just ugly and unwanted?

>>17888382
Your pseudo scientific ideas about women used to justify your own loneliness

God. This is so fucking easy. Just smile at every guy that you want to come up and talk to you.

If you are in a social setting and want to talk to a guy, hang out near by him so he can start to talk to you.

>>17888078
>>17888247
Nice piece of advice will take into account, will have some work to do.
I work in an environment with a male dominant population so if anything, we have at least one interest in common. But it's like autism beyond that, they're all nice and friendly and I try my best to be as well but conversations are pretty limited to a subject or two (work included) or me asking lots of questions. There is one guy who shares a few interests nad it's visible, well at this point at least, that we both stick desperately to these subjects mostly otherwise we wouldn't have much to talk about. And even those talks are rather brief.

So I guess by 'socially awkward' I meant pretty much socially retarded but I will try my best, surely it's a matter of finding the right person(s).

>>17888420
All the time actually

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>>17889432
The real key , as I said before is to listen, actually genuinely listen to what people say. One you will lean more about them and two you will always have a topic to feed off. I always have "spare topics" to talk about. (Never Politics or religion- Movies, TV shows and books I find are winners i.e " Uggh...I cant find anything to read at the moment, any suggestions" Lucky Guy:" You could try..." or "I dont read much", OP:" Well, you should try (insert author here)..just amazing...who do you like". Dont let the autist above get to you..Im sure your lovely, you have boobs, you wil be fine OP. And here is another tip- rejection means nothing. Everyone has been rejected, EVERYONE. Its their loss- not yours.

>>17888345
>full blown anxiety in groups and a minimal desire for socializing

Yes. Pretty secluded, if not a lot. One anon mentioned about resting bitch face and unfortunately I 'suffer' from that too so I'll either unintentionally have that kind of face or, knowing I tend to seem overly serious, angry or even absent, I'll smile like an idiot all the time. Ugh

>>17887823
I would try church