Should i leave my bf? (gay)

>>17887727
>that girls are somehow better

they are if you are male

otherwise do all those things whatever because they are healthy

>>17887775
I don't take interest in them. I'll probably just do it enough to get girls .

Also , I feel like loosing muvCard to a girl is somehow more validating than with a guy. I feel like an idiot saying I got a bf.

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Nah, you're looking at it all wrong.
You have to test out if you have fag tendencies or not.
If you drop this and go for girls you'll always keep wondering. It will always be in the back of your mind.

This is what you have to do:

If your bf is a reasonable person voice your doubts to him, tell him that you're unsure of your sexuality and that you can't promise anything or commit until you see if you enjoy doing stuff like guys. This doubles as being fair and transparent, but also creating an escape plan for yourself if you figure out that you don't like to diddle men.

After that it's pretty simple really, you have to try it out.
After you try it out all your doubts will instantly vanish and you will be sure of your preference.
You've had a gf before, so after this experience you'll be able to contrast and compare.
After that you can make the final decision.

Be honest with yourself OP, you're probably just scared and you're being kind of a pussy.
Well, I can guarantee that running away from this won't alleviate and of your fears and doubts.

Good luck, fag.

>>17887791
This seems like a good compromise .
Ill see if I can get on board .

>>17887791
>You have to test out if you have fag tendencies or not

totally false

my brain & dick are all i need to know whether i'm gay or not, i don't need to actually go kiss & have sex with some guy to figure this out

If that were the case there would be no dilemma in the first place.

A lot of gay people I know identified as bi but later admitted they were lying to themselves because bi didn't seem as bad as gay at the time.

>>17887831
Op here
I disagree with this. I hear stories of guys who think they will line being with a guy only to regret it later

>>17887791
Op here
I talked to my bf and how he is sad
Fuck

Reassure him a bit by saying it's probably all going to be ok.

You simply did what you needed to do.
Giving him this information was a sign of respect and an exercise in trust-building.
It would be unethical to leave him in the dark.
Communication is vital, even if the subject makes both people uneasy.
If he's a reasonable person he'll eventually understand.
If he isn't a reasonable person he's not worth it.