Talking to girl. Yesterday at party someone dared me to kiss her and she didn't want to, I didn't want to do it without her wanting to. Subject is coming up, should I ask why she didn't want to do I?
No I'll tell you, its because she didn't find you attractive.
>>17886465
Aw shit
Don't
No matter what the reason was, she was put in the awkward situation of rejecting you because someone tought it'd be a good idea to set both of you up without her knowledge. Asking her why will just put her in yet another awkward situation.
I'd recommend you apologize to her. Obviously it wasn't your fault, but you'd come up as a better person to her eyes if you were understanding of her position af the moment. Something like "hey I'm sorry the guys put you in that situation in the party, it must have felt awkward to you. Just wanted to let you know this wasn't my idea, ok?"
Whatever reason she had, it won't do good to anyone if she lets you know. Doing as I say, on the other hand, will at least put you as a understanding guy and good friend. It's not as good as a kiss but it's still better than knowing why she rejected said kiss.
>>17886492
also this, you should apologize for the guy for putting her in that situation.
>>17886492
Yeah, I was debating bringing it up because they same group has made it really awkward since then. I'll bring it up in the morning. Thanks all