It's official, I prefer porn to actual sexual intercourse with another human being. It wasn't always this way, it began to creep up a couple of years ago (21 now btw) and now it has gotten to the point where I actively avoid contact with girls that are interested in me because I don't want to broach the topic of having sex with them. I have a Tinder, Bumble, etc for sources of validation, but when they ask to meet up IRL, I always make up some excuse. Am I completely fucked or is there a way out?
I have the same problem at 27. I'm trying to ease back into real sex, but I just don't seem to get any joy from the chase anymore.
>>17885218
I know, I eventually want like a family and stuff, but I lose interest in sex really quickly, so like no reasonable woman is going to want to start a family with a guy that needs 6 shots of Jameson to fuck her once a month and not enjoy it.
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>>17885205
>prefer porn to actual sexual intercourse
Nice. Have you tried to noporn? I have read that prone is in some ways like drugs.
Try noporn. If you get horny, you can fap, but with no stimulation whatsoever. Post results like after 1 month.
>>>/trash/
You'll be among friends
stop watching porn. Fapping is a normal and healthy thing to do in moderation, but porn sets up unrealistic expectations for what real life sex should be, causing irl sex to seem more boring. Cut back the porn man, it'll work wonders.
I gave up mostly on sex in real life too, I was never attractive enough to marry a girl I really wanted to have sex with and ended up settling so I at least wouldn't be lonely
>>17885205
Oh wow OP is a REAL weirdo!
Let's put you on display freak.
>>17886536
OP back again. It's not that I don't enjoy sex, it's just that I like porn way more. It's also way easier and less tiresome. I think I just have no libido when it comes to IRL sex
>>17886662
That's my goal. I'm definitely not unattractive, but I am REALLY opposed to conventional intimacy.
>>17885766
That's the thing. I don't get horny. I work out everyday at the gym. There are tons of 7+/10's that go there, but I'm not even interested in the slightest.