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>love and care about my boyfriend like he seems to love and care about me too
>this year in autumn he kissed 6 other girls/guys on a houseparty which got me really hard.
>thaught our realationship was monogam
>he didn`t
>big discussion
>I forgave him this "thing" after we talked much about this and we said together we`re gonna live monogam for this realationship
> personally think it is a wonder that nothing happend before anyway
>since then i am having several nightmares, depressions and just feeling like shit even after we talked so much about this topic especially when he meets up with his best friend, a girl he had feelings for years ago
> i do not like her, and she is one he kissed
>it makes me very uncomfortable when she`s around especially with him alone
>i know my boyfriend is not a dick but he hurt me once so it could happen twice or?
>the big thing thats bugging me also is that he wants to visit Amsterdam with his 2 friends (which he also kissed) for 5 days for some weed
>the two others sayed they will totally want to got in sex shows, strip clubs etc.
>bf said he wont go but my trust is broken
>i do not know if i could bear the thaught having my bf over there and eventually break my heart again
>should i leave this realationship/ tell him/ what to do?
>I am happy but all in all this little problem is getting on my nerves that i do not know what to do anymore
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My boyfriend cheated on me, then dumped me for the girl, then cheated on her with me, I took him back and he cheated on me again- we're friends still but I told him I'm not taking him back because I know he'll do it again- it's hard to leave I can't fully cut him off.
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>>17883779
He didn't break your trust. He didn't know you guys were exclusive. It sounds like he hasn't done anything since you made it clear you were exclusive.
Sure it sucks, but I think you have no reason to not trust him.
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>>17883801
Wait what? Is this related?
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>>17883779
Worst timing for going to one of the european capitols for drugs and hookers after hurting you in that way. Right now I'd break up. But I'm not in your shoes and don't know how high your pain tolerance is. Seems you didn't make it clear that you'll walk right out of his life if he does this stuff again.
My question is how he can assume just like that that the relationship is open. I'd automatically assume it's exclusive if I got into a new relationship, open if both partners agreed to it.
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>>17883779
lol
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>>17883801
>we're friends still
lmao
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>>17883801
cut him off, it will drive him insane
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>>17883779
>which got me really hard
sad hard or aroused?
alsp
>dating biscum
u get what u deserve
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>kissed 6 *girls/guys* at *[one] houseparty*
I've been dating women like this forever, OP. here's a super secret: it doesn't work.
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>amsterdam
>with fuck buddies
Get out before it's too late op
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>>17883779
Are you retarded?
People don't just kiss when they cheat. He is 100% fucking them and will be having a treesome with them in Amsterdam.
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>>17884559
This. Bi dudes are the fucking worst. Dump him.
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>>17885379
This
Op, im sorry but my ex had a "friend" like that too and he ended up hooking up with them.
If he had respect for your relationship he wouldn't be spending time alone with another girl. Remember, guys are the onea always saying "Girls and guys can't just he friends"
If he hasn't already, he wants to fuck her.
He knew you were exclusive the moment u first called him your boyfriend. That shit is implied, people that want something open usually say so at the beginning. Monogamous couples rarely declare exclusively. It's just known.
He honestly sounds like a fuqboi. You could definitely do better so leave before you hurt yourself
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