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I have been feeling very disappointed and distant from my gf. The reason for this, to put it bluntly, is that it seems she was a bit of a slut before we got together.
I was her first sexual partner, but she told me she used to hook up with pretty much any guy anywhere. Last week, she told me this year alone, before we started dating, she hooked up with 15 guys. We started dating in April. The overall number is close, or bigger than, 40.
I also don't know why this particularly disappointed me, but she used to tell me she was totally straight and never even thought about making out with women, but also confessed she did a triple kiss once and kissed a girl drunk. I guess because I feel like she lied to me.
Is all this reasonable to feel upset about?
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It's pretty disgusting to have sex with 40 people.
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>i was first sexaul encounter
>she hooked up with 40 guys before me
Gonna need some clarity there op. Define: "hooked up"
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>>17881497
>I was her first sexual partner
Hooked up as in making out, kissing, ass grabbing, all that.
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>>17881500
Nah I think you're OK. If she was doing that stuff but stopped as soon as your started dating then she must like you. Just because she did dumb shit in the past doesn't mean she is disappointing
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>>17881514
I thought about that angle, but at the same thing, I think about the other angle, in which she was super easy and there wasn't anything special about me specifically.
Like, I've dated like three women thus far in my life, and I could describe each one to a T, down to the things that made me like them, because I placed such a huge value in intimacy I was choosy as fuck. I don't feel that from her.
I asked her once why she picked me to be her first sexual partner, after so many years and opportunities, and she said, "I wanted to fuck and it seemed like I could trust you."
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