Sexless relationship

Remove all religious ppl from your life and you will experience true happiness

>>17879445
This is called incompatibility anon. Many people take many years to learn that they're incompatible together, be thankful you've found out after only a couple of months. If sex was important to you, you were a fool for getting into this relationship knowing all this beforehand, but hopefully you'll do better next time. Godspeed, anon

>I said that would be a problem for me but she didn't want to break it off now

Excuse me? How exactly did this go, you said "yeah this isn't going to work for me" and she went like "yes it will, I don't feel like breaking up right now, just go with it" and you said OK and remained in the relationship despite being dissatisfied with it?

What the hell are you doing? Break up and find someone who makes you happier than you'd be alone. Or don't, stay single, whatever, just don't be in relationships that offer more bad than good.

>>17879466
I told her it was a problem but I could probably get over it. So we agreed to stick together. I understood her position that there was more to relationships than just sex, and I can still be happy in a relationship without it. Looks like I was wrong about my own assumptions about myself.

>just don't be in relationships that offer more bad than good.
But I still like doing other things with her. I still have someone to cuddle with and trust. I still have some benefits over being single. She's the only girl who's ever shown me interest. I don't have confidence in my abilities to find someone else. I've got 0 other options at the moment. And we still like and care about each other.

>>17879504
>I told her it was a problem but I could probably get over it
You didn't
> I still have some benefits over being single
not fapping, not working out, depressed and zero sex? you look much more like you're single...

There are only two options if you can't make her change her mind: stay with her, or break up. Really simple

>>17879514
I'm having trouble weighing the benefits of either of those options.

>>17879445
This is your own fault. You decided to date someone with completely different views as you.

End it and save her some heartbreak. Yeah you are a dick for being selfish and wasting both of your time. Quit being a little bitch and end it already, the longer you delay this inevitable outcome the more hurt she's going to be. Doesn't sound like you're doing too well either. But you're also acting like a little bitch, it's just sex.

>>17879523
You can still be friends with her, so you'll keep like 80% of the pros (minus kissing and cuddling)

You already have the cons of being single (no sex, no sex and... no sex?), plus depression and conflict

Seems like an easy pick from here: Stand up for yourself

>>17879445
Your being selfish and immature to be holding into a relationship you know will fail. If two months in you feel like this then don't let it go on longer. Don't waste her time or your time anymore. My friend is Asexual and had to break up her past relationship with a guy because he wanted more then she was willing to give.

>I'm going to look like a complete asshole for leaving her solely because she won't have sex with me.

What the fuck? Not at all. That is a completely valid reason to break up with someone. Jesus christ.

Break up. Would you stay with a girl that withheld food from you?

>>17879537
Not after you let it go for so damn long when you knew from the beginning but are too much of a pussy to break up cause she didn't want to. Yeah she was gonna be hurt, but damn now he's dragged it on for months and I'm sure she's gotten more attached in that time.
So yes, that makes him an asshole.

>>17879541
Food doesn't equal sex faggot

>>17879552
If you have a dick and ever got it wet it does

OP. My last relationship was similar. You guys are not compatible in one of the key areas of a relationship. Don't let her and her beliefs guilt you into not enjoying porn and sex. This girl is not an adult.

My current girlfriend has none of the hang ups my ex had, it's so much better. We have so much fun together and sex is great. It's not worth getting hung up over.

>>17879579
>This girl is not an adult.
>t. knows the whole world at 22

>>17879548

No it doesn't, he gave it an honest go and realized it wasn't for him. He tried.

>>17879548

How attached she is is completely irrelevant. Regardless of whether or not OP initially agreed to a sexless relationship, he is still 100% within his rights to break up with her over this. A sexless relationship due to religious abstinence is a fucking stupid idea - that's just my opinion - but above all, nobody should ever have to sacrifice their own happiness for the sake of the relationship.

>>17879585

Who is 22 lol?

>>17879590
Was it too generous? What a child prodigy.

>>17879597
>>17879585

He's right though. Religious abstinence is dumb.

>>17879567
No faggot it doesn't, if you feel that way about sex then you're weak. Like seriously, you aren't going to die from lack of sex. Maybe from suicide since you've already proven to be weak.

>>17879579
Having sex doesn't make you an adult either. Gosh you guys are fucking ass backwards with the way you think.

Taking care of your shit, paying your bills, supporting yourself, that's what makes someone an adult. Just cause your dick gets hard or your pussy gets wet has nothing to do with it.

>>17879613
>be weak
>had intercourse over a thousand times
>engaged in multiple female threesomes
>shit I love my weakness

>all these people acting like being in a relationship with NO SEX isn't absolute torture

c'mon people. if you've ever been in a healthy sexual relationship with a freak who indulges your most hedonistic fantasies, you would know that a sexless relationship is downright apalling. Sex is one of the most exquisite pleasures - why do you think everyone is so obsessed with it?

>>17879632
>why do you think everyone is so obsessed with it?
It's a class thing. The poor/uneducated are more obsessed about it than the elite. That's why the elite don't reproduce as much as the chaff.

>>17879637
So you excuse for not getting any is being a richfag? Lol what a waste of resources

>>17879637
Are you kidding? If anything the elite are more obsessed. That's why these douchey corporate types are flying instagram "models" out to dubai and paying them 50k to shit on their chest. That's why the hollywood casting couch is even a thing. How many poor people do you see getting plastic surgery and botox? You must be misinformed

>>17879622

What you're assuming a lot from what I said.

Having sex is what adults do it's okay, there doesn't need to be any shame to it.

Religious hang ups are stupid.

Quit projecting lol

>>17879643
Pardon?

>>17879646
I'm not kidding you, this is the reality.

>>17879660
It's fucking irrelevant to the thread anyway. We both come from middle class families.

I'm going to break up with her. I knew this was going to happen eventually. I figured I might wait at least until I have slight options on other potential partners. So I don't know if I should do it right now. Also doing it right before Christmas seems like bad timing. I don't want to ruin her holidays.

I have a feeling she wouldn't want to be friends with me afterwards, but I'll ask her about it. I'm also worried about losing some of the friends I met through her. They're religious, if they find out sex was the issue I might look like a pervert or sex addict or sinful or some shit. I don't know. I'm losing so much. If only I didn't have a high libido this would have worked.