Should I give up on the idea of kids and marriage?

>>17878726
Why not just become a sperm donor, anon? I am being absolutely serious.

You can father as many as 100 children and have no legal obligations to them. You'd have fulfilled your biological goal as a male and you'd have all the time in the world for yourself. Everybody wins, courtesy of science.

Just check out this Dutch autist. Even he managed to get 20 [triggered] roasties pregnant.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2025900/Autistic-Dutch-man-fathers-20-children-sperm-donation-lying-health.html

>>17878734
I don't want just to be a father, I actually want to raise a human being and have a family and have a meaningful relationship with someone
it's not about just check-marking an evolutionary obligation

>>17878744
>it's not about just check-marking an evolutionary obligation

dam nigga, you jus made me sound like a sykopat or some shit

>>17878748
sometimes I wouldn't mind being a sociopath. At least I wouldn't be able to give a shit even if I tried

>>17878726
Personally recommend against it.

It just doesn't make sense from risk management perspective, more likely than not you will be raising kids that will end up hating you in the divorce and you will be left without a family or home. That is if the kids were yours to begin with.

>>17878825
that's the thing: people are so cynical about the idea nowadays. I wonder why is that? I personally don't see more kids hating their parents nowadays (besides during puberty) yet everybody is so afraid of the idea

>>17878744
You know the risks, if you really want to do it, go ahead and do it. People take risks all the time - any time you leave the house there's a chance you will die. It's up to you to decide if it's worth the risk

>>17878726

Frankly, I've all but given up on it. I've just kind of realized that pragmatically it's not a great idea, when in my youth I thought it would be. I'm 30 years old, just for context.

Everyone I work with that has a kid and a spouse is just constantly fucking tired and worn down. They slave away from 8-5 or 8-6, just to leave and go pick up their kid from daycare, try to get some kind of meaningful interaction, and then the kid keeps them up half the night anyways. Wash rinse repeat. We make solid money where I work, but the cost of raising a child still is prohibitive.

All of this stress is built up for a tiny human that you barely get to spend time with, and all of this is ignoring the pitfalls of being married in the first place.

Marriage is like a weight these days - you're locked down to someone's agenda, your wife won't let you go out with your pals for a drink, you're obligated to sit your ass on the couch in front of Netflix or whatever each night...

I don't know, my freedom seems like too much of a price to pay, and that's even assuming that 10-15 years down the line when it will be impossible to meet anyone that we don't get divorced and I lose half of my shit.