I found old messages from 4 years back between my ex and me. I was bored so I read through them thinking it's not going to make me feel like shit. Well, I was wrong. I ended up missing her and it feels as though we just broke up recently now with how horrible I'm feeling. Should I just delete the messages now and how do I feel better?
>>17878449
delete the messages. masturbate. listen to music. do something else that will take your mind off it for a little while.
do this and you will soon not give a fuck.
"I opened up a floodgate and water is pouring in.. Do I shut it?"
>>17878817
>delete the messages
will i ever regret this? and is it normal to feel shitty after reading the conversation with an ex even though it has been 4 years?
2nd the deletion of messages and jerking it..... Remember you split up for a reason and I guarantee nothing has changed with either of you...... How many people do you know or know of who got back with an ex and lived happily ever after...... I speak from experience on this
>>17878823
Maybe it's for the best but I personally would regret it.
Yes you should delete the messages. What you should be focused on doing is finding a New GF. Focusing on your EX holds you back from doing that. Just know that one day you will find a girl that will be better to you and for you than your EX ever was. And don't let your past hold you up and get in the way of you finding this new girl.
And smile and be happy. Because one day you will find that girl. And you will love each other and be happy forever. Delete the messages. Move on.