Friend is being selfish but is honest about it

>>17876432
It's fine to have friends at different tiers of closeness.

>>17876432
It's up to you

If keep him around as a drinking buddy

At least he's honest about his assholeness. This means you always know what to expect from him

I have lots of friends that I only really see at parties

>>17876441

Well, maybe I should have mentioned that this isn't how he always was - I've known him for about 15 years and the reason we'd become great friends is because he gave a shit.

This is a new development.

>>17876580
Sucks but I wouldn't try to change him
If you can't stomach having him different then it's time to end the friendship

>>17876432
>B-but I n-need t-to talk to s-someone about my f-feelings
Your friend's not a beta bitch, get over it.

>>17876647

It's not "muh feelings," it's like "dude work was shit today, let me tell you this story" or "did you see what happened on the news today, ain't that some shit?"

That's the kind of shit you talk about with your long-term pals. Not everything is "listen to this sick jam" and "I fucked this girl this weekend."

>>17876691
not enough that it was bad for you, but u have to make it bad for him vicariously

He's honest.
A real friend stabs you in the front.
Most of your other friends do the same, but don't have the balls to tell you.