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dumb girls problems, really appreciate advice 2016-12-19 12:55:11 Post No. 17871417
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dumb girls problems, really appreciate advice
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2016-12-19 12:55:11
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>be me
>enter fwb relationship with coworker who has a boyfriend (of 4 years)
>she explains she's in an open relationship so it would be ok
>go through with it and we fuck a bunch of times
>both of us develop strong feelings for each other so we stop having sex to protect her relationship
>stay close friends with each other ever since
>thought I was getting over her
>she has now told me she is going to break up with her boyfriend
>can already feel my feelings coming back for her
Should I be avoiding her like the plague right now? I have really strong feelings for her which have also made me incredibly depressed and forced me to attend therapy. I want to believe she's a negative part of my life that I should avoid. I want to believe that I only have feelings for her because she takes away my feelings of loneliness. But dudes I'm terrified of feeling alone again and I still see her as a really ideal girl for me. How can I get off this ride?
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>open relationship
Stay the fuck away from these people.
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>>17871417
Well... you could try going out with her for real.
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>>17871425
yeah i was skeptical too when she came to me with that. i just can't make myself see reason because of my feelings for her.
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I don't know about you OP but I think you could try actally dating her. I'd stress to her that it's not an open relationship though.
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>>17871426
she wants to remain single for a while after her breakup. she says she doesn't feel the same towards her bf anymore and that she wants to be single to allow herself space to grow.
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>>17871431
see my post above. i would try otherwise but i'm not sure if she's worth waiting around for or worth all the stress that i've experienced because of this situation.
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>>17871434
>>17871437
Women utter all manner of nonsense.
Ask her out anyway.
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>>17871448
i wish it was that simple sometimes. her and i have previously spoken about dating each other and neither of us are 100% sure. i feel like i would struggle to trust her since she was able to develop feelings for me whilst dating her boyfriend still.
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