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A couple weekends ago my girlfriend and I were playing a stupid drinking game that included "never have I ever" and someone said "never have I ever been fucked in the ass."

We enjoy pegging sometimes, but I wasn't going to admit it in public. When I didn't put my finger down, my gf pushed it down and very loudly told me to be honest.

At the time everyone just giggled awkwardly, but since then everyone seems to think this is hilarious and keep making jokes about it that really make me uncomfortable. My gf and I were going to play pong against a gay couple and they insisted we split up so it would be "tops vs bottoms."

I'm pissed off at my gf for revealing this but she says I am making a big deal out of nothing and to stop whining about it.

How should I deal with her and with people making jokes about this?
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>>17869093
Why is it such a big deal? Your friends are teasing you only because you think so much about it and it shows. If you stop caring they will too.
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Tell them your prefer midlane over bottom next time and everything will be alright.
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Your girl doesn't respect a man who takes it in the ass and it shows. Also if you were my friend I'd give you shit for that as well.
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Aaaaaannddd that's why I'll never try that
No matter how tight the couple is the risk there's always the risk of it slipping somehow
Is it worth it at least?
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>>17869108
I've been trying to act like I'm not bothered by it and its clearly not working because the jokes haven't stopped.

I also feel like my gf broke my trust by revealing something it should have been obvious I considered private and she won't even apologize.
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>>17869144
Tbh if you lie at never have I ever you aren't friend material or even a quality person
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Ask them to stop and tell them that it bothers you.

If they are not immature, they will stop, if they continue then you have shite friends and should find new ones.
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>>17869168
It's a stupid game and not part of the version of the drinking game I am used to playing.
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>>17869168
Bullshit your not killing them nor are you ducking them over. Lying to your friends about that is totAlly acceptable.
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It's already been said but I'll say it again; you're being teased because it bothers you and they know it.

I've been pegged before and all of that jazz. It came up in the exact same way that yours did and I triumphantly took a drink and told the story to my friends. They had a laugh, I laughed, the toaster laughed, and that was the end of it.

Tldr stop being a little bitch
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>>17869168
Yeah, OP should totally reveal an intimate secret about his life that he has trusted his girlfriend with just so he can be a "good friend" and a "quality person". His girlfriend should have never done what she did. That'd be grounds for breaking up if it were me due to how embarrassing it is. Sure, he could have played it off like "Oh yeah you know I dig it in the butt babe" and fooled everybody else, but it should never be able to get there to begin with. I'd say break it off with your girlfriend, she clearly can't be trusted. As for the people, either try to find a way to play it off like I said in a way where they won't think you seriously had it in your ass, deal with it, or you might have to just drop them to end it. Not many options at this point.
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>>17869180

Yeah sure, plead guilty to it

Next time just say "u jelly bro? Seems like you wanna try it too", try to drop their pants and hump them in the ass

You can never imply that it is true, but the more naturally and jokingly you face it, the least funny they'll think it is to tease you about it

I've had gay friends and it isn't funny to joke about it with them because they just face it naturally
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Start ripping on your girlfriend. Use things that question her femininity. Topics not restricted to fashion sense, her potential quality as a mom, etc. the skies the limit.

If she bitch about it, just say that you thought it was the way banter worked with her.
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Moral of the story here is that you shouldn't play a drinking game that requires honesty if you don't want to be honest about what you've done.
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You sure are a little faggot OP.
Not because you like to get assfucked, just because you can't take some jokes.
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>>17869136
>Is it worth it at least?
I love it, but I was really into pegging porn before I actually tried it.
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>>17869093
I'm gonna assume you've fucked your gf in the ass, so I don't understand where the top/bottom dichotomy would come into play in that statement, nor why you'd be upset about it
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>>17869093
Stop being a bitch and own it. Call them prudes when they bring it up mockingly. They're probably curious about it if they harp on it so much. Real men aren't embarrassed by shit like that, they embrace it and don't let anyone belittle them for it. Just when you're firing back don't sound too butthurt (kek) about it. That would be a bad look. Indifference and confidence, friend.
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>>17869230
>nor why you'd be upset about it
It upsets him because its true you retarded tripfag.
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>>17869230
She has never been on the receiving end of anal sex.
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>>17869242
If his ego is so fragile that it's shattered over being made fun of over something he enjoys, that's far more damning to his masculinity than his gf sticking shit up his ass. Being a man is less about what you do, and more about owning what you do.
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>>17869229
Yeah I think it could be fun, but I'm not willing to risk happening that to me lol

A revenge option could be never bringing it up until she brings it, and simply denying her fugging you in the pooper. Say she doesn't deserve it for spilling the beans. If she tries to blackmail you, that'll show what type of person she is
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>>17869244
kek, well then you totally set yourself up for that one homie. Fuck her in the ass and call it a day
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>>17869269
She's not going to let me do that.

>>17869256
Maybe...she's sort of stubborn and while it's something she likes doing, she knows it is something I really like too and I don't think she would break down very quickly.

I turned down a pegging session once since the party because I was still annoyed at her, and she told me I was going to have to beg for it next time.
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>>17869302

Shit bro, you really painted yourself in a corner huh? You don't have any leverage on her other than breaking up to submit her into excusing apparently
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>>17869302
Well shit bro, if you're not going to assert your masculinity then you kind of deserve to get made fun of for it. Sorry. That being said, if you're gonna be the bitch in your relationship you might as well own it, cuz you're just gonna be all butthurt about it if this goes on
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>>17869302
Understand one thing, she is turning you into a full blown sissi and removing any inch of manhood pride.

Get used to it. You might as well start trying out women lingerie while pegged. Treat her well, she will make your wild dreams come true.
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>>17869302
>She's not going to let me do that.

>Be the supposed man in the relationship
>You take it up the ass
>You can't fuck her in the ass
You fucked up.
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It's not socially acceptable to be fucked in the ass by your girl. I'm not saying it's a bad thing, but it's totally understandable that you'd feel uncomfortable about her bringing it up.

Ultimately she doesn't need to bring it up, but if she chooses to anyway and she knows it makes you uncomfortable then how could you not interpret it as malicious?
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>>17869324
>>17869336
/thread
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>>17869338
I would feel devastated if my bf told everyone that he fucks me in the ass, probably break up with him. I imagine the feeling would be worse if you were male.
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>>17869336
It's not really something I care about for its own sake and she knows that. I enjoy fucking her pussy. I was the one who originally brought up pegging, so its not like can say it is only fair for her to "let" me.

>>17869338
She says I shouldn't care about what other people think, cheating at never-have-i-ever is wrong, and if she were being a "prissy little bitch" she'd want me to call her out too.
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>>17869378
Well you're fucked, buddy, and not in the good way. Your masculinity is hiding inside her asshole, and the only way for you to reclaim it is with your penis. If you can't do that, then you really should just learn to accept your role as the girl in this relationship. And in my mind it's become "fair" because she outed your sexual preferences to a bunch of pals, but honestly it doesn't sound like you've got the parts to assert yourself in this relationship so there's really nothing we can advise you on beyond this. Maybe tell her she hurt your feelings? IDK man
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>>17869378
>cheating at never-have-i-ever is wrong
You know what else is wrong? Telling your boyfriend's friends that he takes it up the ass when he's embarrassed by it.
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OP I am sorry for you just because of the fact that you put your trust in someone who clearly doesn't appreciate it. She doesn't fuck you in the ass cuz you love it, or cuz she loves it, but because it inflates her ego.

Next time you date a girl don't let her know your dark desires unless you can trust her to respect them.
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It seems to me that she used this fact to come on top of the relationship. She doesn't seem to want to be considered equal to you.
Why wouldn't she take it in the ass? Does she think it makes her less of a woman? Would she be ashamed if her friends knew she take it in her ass, is that why?
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Congratulations. Your girlfriend knows you're her bitch and now she's making everyone else know you're her bitch. And you know what you did? Took it like a bitch.

Enjoy being used for her amusement. Mocked forever. Given zero respect by her or her friends. All because you're secretly a bender in denial.
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All you people shaming OP are no better than his gf. The problem isn't that he likes it up the ass(that could be any of you, admit it). The problem is that he trusted the wrong person, which could also happen to any of you. So quit using this as an opportunity to kick someone while they are already down. You're the real faggots.
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>>17869638
Not at all, it's that OP is butthurt (ha ha) but won't assert himself in the ways needed to fix this. I don't think it's wrong that he likes getting buttfucked by his lady, and it sucks that she brought that out to all their friends, but OP is just committing to the role of being a sally by not stepping up and actually TRYING to be the man in the relationship. He just wants to come here and wring his hands. Like a bitch. That's why he's getting made fun of
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>>17869093
your gf is right, man the fuck up and stop being a bitch.
Would you rather live the rest of your life in a lie
scared of what other ppl think?
or do you want the real experience.
Fuk what they think im sure theyv done worse and likewise
are to pussy to admit it

sounds like the woman is wearing the pants anon no offence
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>>17869656
>>17869660
So people have no right to personal secrets? You guys are like the kind of assholes who out someone for being gay before they have a chance of coming out of the closet on their own terms. Its not your right or decision. And you're only calling OP a bitch based on the premise that he takes it up the ass while in the same posts you claim that it has no weight on your opinion of him. This is all backwards.
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>>17869638
He deserves to be shamed. The difference is, we're not in a relationship with him.

>The problem isn't that he likes it up the ass
Of course it is.

>Play "I have never"
>They ask who's been fucked in the ass
>Don't worry at all because I haven't been fucked in the ass


His girlfriend is doing what any woman would do in that situation. The man willingly gave up his dignity, so she lost any respect she had for him. It's all his own fault.
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>>17869093
>they insisted we split up so it would be "tops vs bottoms."
This is hilarious. You deserve all the embarrassment and shame you get you degenerate fag. At least own it.
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>>17869668
>It's not your right
Of course it is. Freedom of speech.
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>>17869668
You clearly can't read. I am making fun of OP for being upset by the current dynamic, but being totally unwilling to do anything to change said dynamic. Him taking it up the ass is only tangentially germane to the discussion; what is really important is his unwillingness or inability to assert himself. THAT is what I'm making fun of him for, and that's what makes him a bitch far more than liking stuff up his asshole
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>>17869681
He didn't give up his dignity, he trusted it to someone. But I guess I shouldn't expect kids on 4chan to understand that.
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>>17869695
>He didn't give up his dignity
Yes he did. That's why he's treated like a bitch. Because he is one.

Fag.
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>>17869702
OP doesn't need advice from you. You think less of him because he likes anal stimulation. You probably think he's homosexual or bisexual only because of that.
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>ppl telling OP to stop being a bitch
>meanwhile he literally is THE bitch
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>>17869713
He is a homo. As evidenced by his homo behaviour, his homo friends and everyone calling him a homo to his fucking face while he does nothing.
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>>17869719
Op is a homo for not taking it in the ass like a man

I know faggots who are manlier than op and they suck dicks. Real dicks, not rubber ones.

Op doesn't need to stop taking in the ass to become a man. Just needs to pimpslap his gf for it and submit her into apologizing one way or another, or simply break up with her for breaking the confidence in the couple. It's just as bad as cheating.

Fuck it if his girl is ok with their friends knowin about it. He isn't. So not only it isn't her decision to spread it, even if it was, she should respect his opinion and not spread it.

Op isn't a faggot for taking it in the ass. Op is a faggot because he isn't respected and does nothing to earn his respect.
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>>17869787
OP is a faggot for taking it in the ass. He's a faggot for all those other reasons too. You're a faggot for taking it in the ass as well.
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>>17869200

If you can't do the time, don't do the crime.

This is all OPs fault. If he didn't want embarrassing shit (lol) to come out, eh should have never played the game in the first place.
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>>17869801
He should never have done the embarrassing shit, you mean.
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>>17869803

Well that too.

But if OP really is butthurt (hehe) about it, he should just shit- I mean, sit down with his friends and simply just explain to them that he's uncomfortable with the jokes. If they're true friends, they'll understand.
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>>17869093
You already became something less than a man in your gf's eyes the moment you took it up the butt.
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>>17869093
>My gf and I were going to play pong against a gay couple and they insisted we split up so it would be "tops vs bottoms."


KEK
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So I took some of your advice and stood up for myself and told her that I was reconsidering the relationship, and that I should get to fuck her ass and tell people about it if it wasn't such a big deal.

She didn't respond well at first...she actually told me to "call me back when you are off your period" and hung up.

But later she sent me a long email apologizing for everything. She said she knows I put myself in a vulnerable position with her and she is sorry for abusing my trust. She has a humiliation kink she hadn't consciously explored and between that and the alcohol she made a mistake, and has problems admitting when she is wrong.

Regarding the anal, she doesn't want to try it and apparently has some medical problems that make it a bad idea but is okay with telling people we do it.

And on the bright side, one of her cute friends thought the idea was hot and that we were cool adventurous people and hinted she might be up for a threesome, so it may have all been for the best.
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>>17869998
>She didn't respond well at first...she actually told me to "call me back when you are off your period" and hung up.
Kek

>She has a humiliation kink she hadn't consciously explored
Kek^2

>Regarding the anal, she doesn't want to try it and apparently has some medical problems that make it a bad idea
Kek^3

>one of her cute friends thought the idea was hot and that we were cool adventurous people and hinted she might be up for a threesome

Im ded
You're about to get raped in the ass while being laughed at by your gf lol
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>>17870018
I'm not going to get "raped." I like the act, I would just rather have kept it private.

But if I get a threesome with another girl out of it, that is worth a little embarrassment. And it makes up for the asymmetry of me not getting to give anal.
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>>17869093
Realistically, there is nothing wrong with ass play. The real problem is that you were obviously uncomfortable but she literally stuck you on the line to dry. You may want to dump her because if thats what she does in front of you, there is no saying what she does behind your back. Honestly though, tell her she was a cunt for that and take it from there
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>>17870111
>nothing wrong with ass play

Yep, this is why society sucks. A few bad apples gotta ruin it for everyone else.
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>>17869093
murder suicide, make sure all the friends who heard go with you too.
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She's getting off so easily and you can't notice it

She still has 100% leverage on you. And if her friend tought it was hot, be sure your gf already told her in details. Your other friends probably also know very well what you do behind your back (kek), and not just suspect because a bad taste joke in a drinking game.

You're about to become those girls cumdumpster and you're happy about it. Just don't come back when her friend spread the word to the winds.
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>>17869998
So all it took was having the balls to actually tell your partner how you feel. Who could have guessed.
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>>17870139
This
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>>17870139
All he accomplished is another gossiper to fuck his ass

Relationship wise, he achieved nothing
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>>17869998
>Regarding the anal, she doesn't want to try it and apparently has some medical problems that make it a bad idea but is okay with telling people we do it.
That wouldn't be good enough for me personally but, whatever. Good on you for standing up for yourself, at least
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>>17870179
Are you ok?
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>>17870047
So if you get banged in the ass by TWO girls, one who abused your trust and another you don't even love, YOU'LL be the winner in the end? Great logic, you mentally ill degenerate fag.
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>>17870167
So we've talked some more about the details and it sounds like I am probably getting a double-blowjob (which has always been one of my fantasies) out of it before she fucks me.
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>>17870207
Oh how nice

You get to have your penis in two MOUTHS before two people have plastic dicks in your ASS

Please never have kids. I take that back: please have kids so that my kids will have easy competition.
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>>17870207
Is she doing it just to compensate you?
I'm not a fan of threesomes, even FFM. I would only want her to pay more attention to your relationship privacy. Be careful not to create another problem.
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>>17870207
This pegging shit can only be great, or it messed hard with your head

You DO realize that you won't be able to hide it from anyone after that right? I mean, if you're ok with that, it's cool. But your gf isn't respecting your initial opinion of disliking her making it public at all. On the contrary, she's bringing someone else in who'll be able to testify first hand if the subject comes up again.

If you're ok with that, go ahead. Sexually it sure will be quite an experience. But you're not earning any more respect than she has for you now (which is little), nor hiding that you like it in the butt from your friends.
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>>17870207
Ooooo she's good
Be careful with that one op
Wise beyond her years
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>>17870247
Explain

I think you're seeing 'genius' where there is actually just 'coincidence'.
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>>17870269
Time will tell
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>>17870234
We've talked about threesomes before. Neither of us had any interest in MFM, I wanted FFM and she thought it was sort of hot but was worried she might feel jealous. So maybe it is just to compensate me, but I am ok with her potentially feeling a little jealous after what I have been through.

>>17870245
Everyone in this friend group basically knows at this point, so it doesn't really matter.
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>>17870290
>Everyone in this friend group basically knows at this point, so it doesn't really matter.

It seem you're ok with that by now so, well, follow your dreams, ride your strapon to the sunset

FFM threesomes are awesome, just make sure your gf and the girl will interact amongst themselves, otherwise you'll be losing the best part
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>>17870207
So now you're still with the bitch that broke your trust, and she's passing you around with her girlfriends like a sex toy.

I was actually on your side for awhile OP... but now I'm disappointed.
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Find a girlfriend that respects your privacy over some dumb game with your douchbag friends. What a bitch.
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>>17869093
OP. Men have and always will be ridiculed for taking it in the ass. You'll be seen as weak because you willingly let someone dominate you. Get used to it, your girlfriend tarnished your reputation,and it won't ever fully recover. Just get use to it, and maybe hate fuck your girlfriend if you're not a complete bitch
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>>17869093
OP. Men have and always will be ridiculed for taking it in the ass. You'll be seen as weak because you willingly let someone dominate you. Get used to it, your girlfriend tarnished your reputation,and it won't ever fully recover. Just get use to it, and maybe hate fuck your girlfriend if you're not a complete bitch
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you're a cuck
that gets fucked in the ass
and your girlfriend controls you

hit the start new game button
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THIS is why you never, Never, EVER, let chicks do ANYTHING to your ass! It's a respect thing. Now that she's dominated you, you're going to have nothing butt trouble from her, from here on out.
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